I would go with... Boobs. Because they're infront and you can actually notice people checking 'em out. Butt, not so much. I always had a butt though so I take it front granted

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Bum! - small boobs are absolutely fine, but a bigger bum helps to create an hourglass shape.

Sonja.

I would wish for hips to balance out my shoulders.  My body has narrow hips, but my spirit has mother hips

I go for personality... I know, I know... cliche. But it is true... that's why I would consider myself bisexual because I don't care about the physical. There are three things that attract me, 1) kindness, 2) charisma, 3) intelligence... and I like bubbly people too but that's not a big thing. I can appreciate beauty but it does nothing for me. Although I do like someone who has squirrel like teeth. It just soooooo cute!

In terms of myself... other than the obvious down below... if I had to choose one thing, if I could have my hair back I would choose that but if that's not possible then I would pay to feminise my face. I think face is more important than boobs or butt. Although a big bust might mean nobody is looking at your face when they talk to you anyway. 

Quote from: Alexa Ares on September 26, 2018, 07:10:21 AM
Okay this is a bit of a frivolous post however that's good at times!

Out of interest, do you consider breasts or buttocks to be more significant to your idea of beauty in either yourself or women in general.   

I lean towards buttocks as feel a small waist and big round buttocks creates a beautiful strong shape.
Hence the hours I put in on hip thrusts and glute kickbacks and that I would prioritise cosmetic surgery to the waist / butt over breasts.

Thoughts? What do you Ladies think?

Hello Alexa

This is too close to call for me.

I desire at least noticeable sized boobs say B Cup but I also want noticeable cleavage and hence BA may be necessary.

Shapely rather than large butt and shapeliness in terms of hour glass figure as a whole also for me.

These 2 aspects affirm femininity but as others have said the face is extremely important and the main aspect for me is to correct my hooded eyes.

Hugs

Pamela

Hello Pamela, its Interesting to hear your view and that of everyone else. I guess we can all see that face is a major factor in a female appearance and as such facial work is the first and maybe only surgical procedure I have planned. I will see how I feel after in regards to dysphoria.

I hope in time you get the work done that you feel you need, there are some very good surgeons in the UK.

Alexa x

Thank you Alexa for your very kind thoughts and words of advice. I hope you also achieve your surgical aswell as emotional aims!

Sending love to you.

Pamela xx

Thank You Pamela!
Lets hope we both get to where we want to be one day.

Alexa x

All my adult life I was face and breast oriented.  First face, followed by breasts,  Not big boobs, but nice and medium sized.  I don't like big hanging boobs, the shape of a breast is more important for me than the size.
and now I am all excited that i am growing my own ones.  I hope they will end up meeting my imagination of a nice looking breast.
Butts are very important, because one needs a body part to attach the legs to.  That is all a butt is for me, an attachment point for legs!

My butt is beautiful the way it is, nice and round. If my boobs would be big enough to match my butt, that would be glorious. I don't exactly have the correct boobs to butt ratio for some outfits, and I dislike the idea of trying to pay my boobs beyond what a good bra can do.

Oh boobs definitely. But I don't like overy big ones, nor those that droop down to navel level. C cup is about as big as I like, and perky ones are the best.

Some of both would be nice .. hips too

I just want whatever I can.

I'd love both. Curse genes and testosterone...skinny bum, big gut, tiny chest

I would say both with hips to. An hourglass figure is beautiful.

Hi,

For me at this point being so early in transition, I would say boobs.  I have somewhat of a butt and hoping once I start HRT some from my waist will also distribute there.  However, I have heard mixed results from those who transition older (I'm 44) about fat redistribution.  I would love to have boobs!  However, a big booty is awesome too.  I would have to say if a little went up and a little went down, I would be ok with that.  As others have said though, women are all individuals and bring all kinds of diversity in terms of body shape.  I am always cautious when people talk of "ideal" because inevitably people always fall short of that and seem to always be chasing the perfect bod.  Being new, however, I am enjoying looking at my body more consciously and want to do what I can to look as feminine as possible.  This is a funny thread but thanks for starting, we need something light sometimes too.

Billie

I will take a serious look at this. A woman is not just two great body areas. 

She, or me, should be much more than that.  I would not want to optimize either of these nice body areas, yet at the same time have serious deficiences in the various aspects of living.  This does not mean that I would not want to have these nice body areas, and have them modestly showed off and noticed.  I do! 

We have what we have.  Some things are under our control, some things are not.

The entire woman is appreciated.  She is graceful, kind, thoughtful, empathetic, a great conversationalist, fun, smart, witty, pretty, responsible, smells great, has sexy hair with movement, smiles, is proportionally attractive, and has the sweetest voice.  Plus, she could put up with me and love me forever, with me also embracing and grateful for our wonderful lifelong relationship.  I want to always model what I desire.  Might never be possible, but I can make forward progress. 

Hugs,

Chrissy

I don't think that I ever thought about it before. I wanted to be passable more than I wanted to breathe but I never had anything particular that I was hoping for. My butt and hips have always been noticeably large for a guy and I wasn't too worried about breasts, if I didn't get any at all I would have gotten ba. All of that turned out fine if not perfectly what I think they should be. My hips are just a little square(curvy but more like a lego in marshmallow instead of a gum ball in marshmallow), and my breasts are a little too far apart and not full enough on the bottom. With clothes on it's all good and at my age men tend to not pay attention to the small imperfections anyway. I am happy and grateful for how my transition went, not perfect but far beyond my expectations.

Boobs or booty? Yes please and hair, I wanted beautiful hair. It's all done for me, I got what I got, and it is hard to look back but between the two, booty. I have always thought that men found it easier to objectify a woman with large breasts. Besides I have always wanted to hear a guy say, I hate to see you leaving but I love to watch you go.

Quote from: billieco18 on October 28, 2018, 11:12:23 AM
Hi,

For me at this point being so early in transition, I would say boobs.  I have somewhat of a butt and hoping once I start HRT some from my waist will also distribute there.  However, I have heard mixed results from those who transition older (I'm 44) about fat redistribution.  I would love to have boobs!  However, a big booty is awesome too.  I would have to say if a little went up and a little went down, I would be ok with that.  As others have said though, women are all individuals and bring all kinds of diversity in terms of body shape.  I am always cautious when people talk of "ideal" because inevitably people always fall short of that and seem to always be chasing the perfect bod.  Being new, however, I am enjoying looking at my body more consciously and want to do what I can to look as feminine as possible.  This is a funny thread but thanks for starting, we need something light sometimes too.


Billie

Thank you Billie! I agree its good to have something light from time to time, as face it alot of what we deal with is trying and tough. A little smile and a bit of sparkle is fun too!
I have so many things I could come on here and complain about, and tell you how hard it is for a Cis-Trans marriage to work however I Dont know if that helps me as much as a little light chat with people like me, about things I value alot
(I won't lie, Im VAIN! hence a bit of nip and tuck planned)

I wish you well for your Transition. From what I hear the effects of HRT vary alot from person to person so you may or may not see a big difference in curves. Hopefully its the later, and you get some nice curves off it over time. Either way, its something that many Trans women find makes their life much better, is HRT.

Agree there isn't really a ideal per se. And we should all be wary of trying to chase one. To some degree you work with what you got and try to improve but be realistic...

It is a sign of the times, that more than one look is in. Its not the 90s anymore , where the slim look reigned supreme. Now theres a while variety of cover model Cis women all are beautiful but not all are a 34-24-34 or anywhere near that. The wonderful Ashley Graham for example. or the Icon that is Kim Khardasian West.

Lexa X

Given that I already have decent sized moobs and my mom's breasts were very large (before she had a reduction), I'm not worried about the boobs.

But I do need butt. Actually, what I need is my butt to stay the same as I lose pounds. I'm right now 37" waist, 42" hips. If I get down to W32/H40, that's a win.