My apologies if this is a little 'brutal' but I'm now a year older in birthday terms and stuff worries me less.


When is the right time to do anything in life?

What I have realised is that tomorrow never comes and waiting for it is futile.

Life, however, changes constantly.  I waited for some things and then found out that I had cancer and my life is now predictably short. I'm by no means alone with that and it does not particularly concern me... any more.

But (there is always the BUT) I do realise I want to live for every day as tomorrow - I am dead .....

As for what people think of me?

I don't care  - let them laugh at my corpse, it won't worry me.

Oh and voice -- I now have a 'mechanical' voice as I have no vocal cords. I speak in short sentences at best.  No one. Absolutely no one has misgendered my voice. Maybe they are too busy looking at the half inch hole in my neck but I take what I can !

So don't worry so much. Take your chances when you can. Never fear the future, live for now and make your own luck and life.

Quote from: ChrissyRyan on January 01, 2019, 08:41:59 PM
I do not think that I would go full time unless I could have a nice female voice first.

While it is nice to have affirming time with others while sounding male, I would feel much more comfortable with a sweet sounding female voice that just comes out naturally. 

I love the sound of a joyful feminine voice.  It can be so attractive and soothing. 

Chrissy

Hello again Chrissy

I agree absolutely on both counts.

I wish my voice to sound feminine and I shall shortly address that.

A feminine voice is certainly attractive and soothing as you say; it can be approachable, understanding and compassionate.

Hugs

Pamela

Quote from: pamelatransuk on January 02, 2019, 05:01:40 AM
Hello again Chrissy

I agree absolutely on both counts.

I wish my voice to sound feminine and I shall shortly address that.

A feminine voice is certainly attractive and soothing as you say; it can be approachable, understanding and compassionate.

Hugs

Pamela

I would love to hear the experience of you girls as you develope a voice. I bet you already have the inner disposition for it but not the vocals yet. I know a good voice takes many hours as well.

It is my first goal when I finish electrolysis.

Wishing you  timely fulltime,  Kirsten.

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