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Name change, and finally starting to get gendered correctly!

Started by Cailan Jerika, January 31, 2019, 05:20:00 PM

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Cailan Jerika

Last week I got my legal name change. I am now Cailan Eric (Cai rhymes with sky). Commence the paperwork nightmare!

Also in the last three weeks I've finally been gendered male (sir'ed) by random strangers (four times so far). I'm still at the point where they try to correct themselves after getting a good look, but at least it's finally happening after almost 2 years on T.










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Maid Marion

Congratulations in the progress in passing as your intended gender!
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Northern Star Girl

Quote from: Cailan Jerika on January 31, 2019, 05:20:00 PM
Last week I got my legal name change. I am now Cailan Eric (Cai rhymes with sky). Commence the paperwork nightmare!

Also in the last three weeks I've finally been gendered male (sir'ed) by random strangers (four times so far). I'm still at the point where they try to correct themselves after getting a good look, but at least it's finally happening after almost 2 years on T.

@Cailan Jerika
Well... I look at this as very good news and very affirming for you to get gendered correctly...   finally after 2 years, I sure that your patience was tested!!!

There will be more good things coming your way as you continue your journey.
I will be looking for more of your updates and reports!!!

Hugs and well wishes,
Danielle
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Hi Cailan!  Now on to a fairly easy step in name change here on the forums.
I've replied to your request and ready for the next step.

And Cailan........it does feel great when you're gendered correctly!

Hugs and smiles, Jessica

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DawnOday

Cai Don't take this the wrong way it is only a joke. I find humor in the strangest things.

How can you be mistaken in -25 weather. Everyone looks kind of dude-ish in parka's.  Glad you got that business taken care of and you are on your way to the person you were supposed to be. I hope you are never mistaken again. All the best sweetheart.
Dawn Oday

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Cailan Jerika

Quote from: DawnOday on January 31, 2019, 06:03:49 PM
Cai Don't take this the wrong way it is only a joke. I find humor in the strangest things.

How can you be mistaken in -25 weather. Everyone looks kind of dude-ish in parka's.  Glad you got that business taken care of and you are on your way to the person you were supposed to be. I hope you are never mistaken again. All the best sweetheart.

So now I have to crush you. We're 80-100 degrees warmer than you are. No, I'm not sorry.  >:-)

I live in Western Washington state, we haven't even been cold enough to snow here. I don't even own a parka. We're expecting our first snow, maybe next week. It's been t-shirts and lightweight jackets all year. It's been unusually warm in our region, it's been near 50F all week!










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DawnOday

Oops! The yokes on me. I live in Auburn WA, so I know about the Indian Winter we are experiencing. Besides the 70 mph winds we had a few weeks ago it has been a pretty mild winter.  We haven't had snow or even much rain this year. Just visiting LA. my Mother in Law died at 93 years young. I have been in Washington for 22 years now. If you have access to Ingersoll in Seattle or Rainbow Center at Tacoma. Perhaps I will see you at one of the meetings.  Stay safe.
Dawn Oday

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First crossdress - Asked mother to dress me in sisters costumes  Age 7
First revelation - 1982 to my present wife
First time telling the truth in therapy June 15, 2016
Start HRT Aug 2016
First public appearance 5/15/17



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Ryuichi13

Quote from: Cailan Jerika on January 31, 2019, 05:20:00 PM
Last week I got my legal name change. I am now Cailan Eric (Cai rhymes with sky). Commence the paperwork nightmare!

Also in the last three weeks I've finally been gendered male (sir'ed) by random strangers (four times so far). I'm still at the point where they try to correct themselves after getting a good look, but at least it's finally happening after almost 2 years on T.

Congrats!  Don't forget to get your new Social Security card and if you have a passport, to get that changed as well. 

I think I still have the first piece of mail I got after then name change.  Of course, its only been 2.5 years for me. 

It's also a superb feeling to be correctly gendered!  I bet you're still smiling!  Don't let them correct themselves, after all they were correct the first time. 

Good luck!

Ryuichi


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