Quote from: Chloe on February 08, 2019, 05:52:33 AM
Actually have found it to be quite the other way 'round Linde . . the guy is bedding you as "don't think so" becomes a "why not" and then an "ok, yes lets do this" finally kicks in! A totally different dynamic, or "re-tuning" is at play, when someone else is the aggressor and your body tells brain SHUTUP! Most women are just as sexual as men they're just not, by definition, as open and forward about it! lol I mean if ya listen to them every day "feminine dress choices" has absolutely NOTHING to do with it - a complete & total DENIAL at best!
Of course what he thinks/assumes is in yer pants is only one small part of "the total attraction package"!
I wait to see the day! First I would need to find a guy, who would want to do this, and secondly I need to like that guy enough to do it with (I always needed an emotional bond for any sexual activities). At the moment I don't even know where to find such a guy! Do you have a spare one laying around, who I could borrow for a while?
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Are you planning an "orchi"? At our age don't think that's a good idea, "T sex levels" are already low to begin with and, gotta agree with Tonya, if the predisposition toward men is not there already then highly doubt SRS will change anything (and, perhaps what your shrink is hinting at, will only make your bed sex death worse?)
For me, at our age, it becomes a huge Catch-22 of "probability": I'd rather fantasize 'bout the thought of being with a man *again* than actually sleeping (literally?) with another woman I may, or most likely will not, ever "identify" with at all? lol Sounds all very "narcissistic" to me . . . lol whatever happened to "opposites attract"?
Not only planning, but will have one, and health insurance will pay for it, because my estes hurt a lot for almost a year now. The doc feels they are so atrophied that the might have stopped producing testosterone about 5 years ago. There is not much of testosterone found in my body (I am at about female levels of the stuff), and those testes are not even very decorative anymore! My body did feminize itself over the last 15 or so years to that extend, that I would have a hard time to pass as a naked man anymore, and that includes my penis, but yet, I don't have female parts either. I am as intersex as I always was, and wonder if I ever an be a singel gender person (or at least feel like one?)
From y emotions I have been a woman all my life, partly because of my biological make up, I guess?
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On a "sex" level suppose one could say I sympathize more with guys which certainly is not something very prevalent these days! @NatalieRene am sinking fast help me out here plz!
I still think that I would always have a hard time to accept a man as a sex partner. One of the reasons is definitely my absolutely 100% dislike for any kind of anal sex, which, at the current time of my bodis "setup", would be the only way, a man could penetrate me.
<Removed by moderator.> (my wife was the sam by the way, we tried it, and we both hated it).
<Removed by moderator.> At the same time, I do know how to satisfy women, without penetration, because I have a lot of experience doing this!
As a conclusion, why would I want to be with a guy, if
<removed by moderator> while I could have a lot of fun with women,
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