Support group meet today, second time for me. This time I not only managed to not break down I actually contributed.
Amongst other things I brought up, for me, was about mirrors and photos. In one response, she (another gal in the group) interjected a "you're gorgeous" comment. Which I heard several more times before we were done ... apparently I present well.
The important part, Lori went and joined the spouses to/parents of group. She did enjoy talking (listening) to them. She said that most of what was discussed we've already talked about.
I think that she won't mind going back again. To hear others with similar issues and also a chance to help, I think it'll be good for her and them.