Just had a partial labiaplasty on the outer labia a couple weeks ago(excess tissue removed). So the stitches have all dissolved and PA is happy, I'm happy, and it's not uncomfortable, but I thought I'd ask to see if folks have a special thing that's really super good for softening scars. I have Boiran Calendula cream, Dragon's Blood pure sap(Sangre de Drago, Croton lechleri), and Mederma. I have googled and read all that stuff. It's not clear to me that those (google sites) folks have ever had a scar or are just parroting each others' sites! Each has a different feel and each is supposed to be good. The Dragon's Blood sap is best at night when I'm not moving as during the day it causes a slight "dry" feeling in the area. I had done that for a couple nights before getting-it-checked-day(+17) and she commented that it was soft, so maybe I already have my answer... Calendula doesn't last. I just now put on Mederma to try it, then thought I'd ask here. I don't recall having scars when Stanford did what I have now, but that was sooooo long ago. Thanks to all and hugs to all! This journey goes on forever!!! 🙂