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About my boyfriend

Started by Astxl, April 10, 2019, 07:59:11 PM

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Astxl

The truth is, my boyfriend knows that I take hormones since I was very young, and all that, but sometimes he talks about my bottom part as "vagina" (we have not had sex yet, and I'm still not operated because I'm just 16 and I have to wait until 18) and that makes me feel uncomfortable.

And sometimes I feel that he forgets that I am trans, and that causes me a little fear, although he's not transfobic, and I consider myself and, I am a normal girl, but you know, I have that part below, and if one day we had sex, I would be afraid to reach that point and he would forget that I have that and act violent.

I don't know what to do about it, please, help :)
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Charlie Nicki

Well talk to him about it. He does know you're trans, does he know you haven't had SRS? If not, you have to tell him.
Latina :) I speak Spanish, English and a bit of Portuguese.
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Astxl

Quote from: Charlie Nicki on April 10, 2019, 08:34:46 PM
He does know you're trans, does he know you haven't had SRS? If not, you have to tell him.

Obvious, but I feel like he forgets that, and makes me feel weird.
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Charlie Nicki

Quote from: Astxl on April 10, 2019, 09:28:31 PM
Obvious, but I feel like he forgets that, and makes me feel weird.

You'll be fine.
Latina :) I speak Spanish, English and a bit of Portuguese.
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Maddie

If it makes you feel weird, please stop and listen to your intuition.
Especially if you are worried he may get violent.
If you have reason to believe he may get violent, and if you feel unsafe, its okay to slow down and protect yourself, Astxi
Crossdressed as small child. Told parents, then hid it.
1980s-2010s Alternately "out" to varying degrees and/or outright denial and man-faking
2015 Surrendered/allowed my she-self to show more outwardly. Changes begin.
Currently working with counselor. No HRT or surgeries yet.
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