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Started by AlwaysLauren, April 05, 2008, 03:09:01 PM

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tekla

Knock on wood, I'm 53, never had any operation, never been in a hospital except to visit (and to be born) and never taken a drug except for recreation. 

But since most of the nude beaches here are 90% gay men, I figure I can wear my bikini and no one cares.  Though it did lead my GF to tell me I was the only person who could dress incorrectly on a nude beach.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Just Mandy

LOL... I see... I assumed you were doing as the natives.... I could only
imagine the looks if you were on HRT and nude :)

Amanda

Something sleeps deep within us
hidden and growing until we awaken as ourselves.
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tekla

I imagine not much, people here are pretty hard to faze.  And its SF, so yeah, its a nude beach, on the coldest bit of real estate this side of Point Barrow.  So yeah, you can go nude, but bring a 3 season sleeping bag and arctic parka, just in case.
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Keira


The water in SFO is so damn cold (actually all california water are cold, there's a cold
current going up the cost all the way to alaska), that nobody really goes in the water
for any length of time if ever. People go to the beach to be seen, its a social occasion.
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tekla

Well its a lot warmer down south,  LOTS warmer.  But its frigid here.  You have hypothermia inside of a few minutes without a wet suit on.  Surfers go in the water, but only in wet suits, same with the windsurfers.  And if you really want to swim, there is the Bay down at the park, which is nice, sheltered - but still cold.  However you get to swim around old sailing ships, so that's kind of cool.  And there are people there swimming all the time.  But really, its Cali, and in SF there are few pools, everywhere else, there are tons.  My northern apartment has a year round heated pool, and two six person hot tub/spa things, and I go the Russian River a couple times a summer, so there is the option.

The real problem at most beaches up north is the rip-currents, undertows and sleeper waves.  We have quite a few people drown every year.  They get caught in the current and get washed out to sea.
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Berliegh

We've still got Winter here in the U.K and it's pretty cold. Last week it snowed in some parts of the country..
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Terra

Um, so how do you girls navigate the locker room problem? This is probably my biggest problem besides being able to wear a swimsuit.
"If you quit before you try, you don't deserve to dream." -grandmother
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Nigella

Quote from: Angel on April 21, 2008, 06:06:46 AM
Um, so how do you girls navigate the locker room problem? This is probably my biggest problem besides being able to wear a swimsuit.


Hi Angel,

If they have taken your money at the front desk (swimming pool) then you passed. In the UK we have changing cubicles in the locker rooms so no problem.  I just get my locker and key, change in the cubicle and then go for the swim, get back from the swim and into the shower cubicle with door (locked).

hugs

Nigella 
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Berliegh

Quote from: Nigella on April 21, 2008, 10:09:39 AM
Quote from: Angel on April 21, 2008, 06:06:46 AM
Um, so how do you girls navigate the locker room problem? This is probably my biggest problem besides being able to wear a swimsuit.


Hi Angel,

If they have taken your money at the front desk (swimming pool) then you passed. In the UK we have changing cubicles in the locker rooms so no problem.  I just get my locker and key, change in the cubicle and then go for the swim, get back from the swim and into the shower cubicle with door (locked).

hugs

Nigella 

Yea, but what about on the beach?
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kirakero

I am fond of wandering around the house half or fully naked o..o  Maybe later this summer I will drag some friends to go skinny dipping with hehe.  (... Need to find a few cute girls around my age first that would be okay with that...)

I haven't been swimming for over two years now (which overlaps my transition and the time since then).  I am quite excited to get back in the water, however I have known that I would be uncomfortable about swimming until after SRS.  I imagine other people would mind my icky pieces more then I do o..o
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Berliegh

Quote from: kirakero on April 21, 2008, 01:28:00 PM
I am fond of wandering around the house half or fully naked o..o  Maybe later this summer I will drag some friends to go skinny dipping with hehe.  (... Need to find a few cute girls around my age first that would be okay with that...)

I haven't been swimming for over two years now (which overlaps my transition and the time since then).  I am quite excited to get back in the water, however I have known that I would be uncomfortable about swimming until after SRS.  I imagine other people would mind my icky pieces more then I do o..o

To be honest kirakero, if most looked like you they wouldn't have any worries
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Nigella




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Yea, but what about on the beach?
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Beach towel Berliegh.

hugs

Nigella
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kirakero

Quote from: Berliegh on April 21, 2008, 02:09:31 PM
To be honest kirakero, if most looked like you they wouldn't have any worries

Berliegh: I appreciate your sentiments, though it doesn't change the fact I am quite self-conscious about the bulge down below...  I can wear a skirt just fine (I tuck 24/7), and my breasts are substantial enough that I don't wear a padded bra, but I find that there is too much material down below to hide in a bathing suit.  Ultimately I want to be able to enjoy the water and not be thinking about my body.  I am a water lover, but I can wait another couple months.
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cindybc

Hi Kirakero, congrats hon, it appears your will be enjoying the beach before the end of the summer. I pray all goes well and that your new life be full and happy.

I never stopped going to the beach, I love the beach but then when I still had something there there was not much to hide anyway. I haven't went to the beach for the last couple of years though. Either the water and the air has got colder or old age is creeping in. But some still think I'm in my forties, "Hee, hee, hee." I ain't going to disabuse them of that notion.  As for dressing for the beach I always put my bathing suit on first then my outside clothes over it.

Cindy
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Terra

Quote from: Nigella on April 21, 2008, 10:09:39 AM
Quote from: Angel on April 21, 2008, 06:06:46 AM
Um, so how do you girls navigate the locker room problem? This is probably my biggest problem besides being able to wear a swimsuit.


Hi Angel,

If they have taken your money at the front desk (swimming pool) then you passed. In the UK we have changing cubicles in the locker rooms so no problem.  I just get my locker and key, change in the cubicle and then go for the swim, get back from the swim and into the shower cubicle with door (locked).

hugs

Nigella 

Sorry, I should have been more specific. This pool (only one I know of in town) is the university's gym pool. To get to it or any of the gym you have to pass through first either the men's or women's locker room.

I'm really nervous to even try. I may pass, but the swimsuits that women wear wouldn't be to forgiving if something should 'slip'. I can't think of a worse way to be outed personally.  :embarrassed:
"If you quit before you try, you don't deserve to dream." -grandmother
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lady amarant

Quote from: Angel on April 21, 2008, 09:19:47 PM
I'm really nervous to even try. I may pass, but the swimsuits that women wear wouldn't be to forgiving if something should 'slip'. I can't think of a worse way to be outed personally.  :embarrassed:

I agree. That would be just about the worst way I can imagine, apart from the old TV/Movie thing where all your clothes get torn off by a randomly passing uber-vacuum-cleaner.

~Simone.
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Nigella

Quote from: Angel on April 21, 2008, 09:19:47 PM
Quote from: Nigella on April 21, 2008, 10:09:39 AM
Quote from: Angel on April 21, 2008, 06:06:46 AM
Um, so how do you girls navigate the locker room problem? This is probably my biggest problem besides being able to wear a swimsuit.


Hi Angel,

If they have taken your money at the front desk (swimming pool) then you passed. In the UK we have changing cubicles in the locker rooms so no problem.  I just get my locker and key, change in the cubicle and then go for the swim, get back from the swim and into the shower cubicle with door (locked).

hugs

Nigella 

Sorry, I should have been more specific. This pool (only one I know of in town) is the university's gym pool. To get to it or any of the gym you have to pass through first either the men's or women's locker room.

I'm really nervous to even try. I may pass, but the swimsuits that women wear wouldn't be to forgiving if something should 'slip'. I can't think of a worse way to be outed personally.  :embarrassed:

Hi Angel,

Do you go through the women's locker room first dressed or in swimsuit? If dressed it should not be a problem if you are confident enough. Personally I got to the stage in life where I don't care what they think and thinking that way has given me confidence to push the barriers. I deliberately see how far I can go bit by bit to see if anyone challenges me. Perhaps I shouldn't but its the only way i can see if i pass. Up to now I have had no one say anything. The only thing that happens is a few looks because I think they are not quit sure if I am male or female. Well I can live with that, keep um guessing that's what I say, lol.

The swimming pool was my most recent exploit, lol.

hugs

Nigella
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Terra

Quote from: Nigella on April 22, 2008, 01:18:13 PM
Hi Angel,

Do you go through the women's locker room first dressed or in swimsuit? If dressed it should not be a problem if you are confident enough. Personally I got to the stage in life where I don't care what they think and thinking that way has given me confidence to push the barriers. I deliberately see how far I can go bit by bit to see if anyone challenges me. Perhaps I shouldn't but its the only way i can see if i pass. Up to now I have had no one say anything. The only thing that happens is a few looks because I think they are not quit sure if I am male or female. Well I can live with that, keep um guessing that's what I say, lol.

The swimming pool was my most recent exploit, lol.

hugs

Nigella

I haven't even tried to go in yet, but considering no one bats an eye to me using the woman's room on campus I doubt that going dressed would cause any trouble. My worry is in the actual swimming part. Cold water may cause some *ahem* shrinkage, but swimsuits on girls are rather tight. Even the boyshorts kind.
"If you quit before you try, you don't deserve to dream." -grandmother
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tekla

get a swimsuit with a little skirt.  And I see lots of girls these days wearing boys "board shorts" and a bikini top.
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Terra

Quote from: tekla on April 22, 2008, 09:06:00 PM
get a swimsuit with a little skirt.  And I see lots of girls these days wearing boys "board shorts" and a bikini top.

But don't they kind of 'cling' when they get wet?
"If you quit before you try, you don't deserve to dream." -grandmother
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