Hi Everyone CosmicJoke has certainly posed a thought provoking question: "How can some people say we don't need to do this?" One way to approach this is with another question: "How long is a piece of string?" The answer, of course, depends on measuring it, a process that involves directly measuring 'the piece of string' to determine its length.
Similarly, when people say, "we don't need to do this," the real answer lies in asking them why they believe that. Their reasons might vary greatly, perhaps stemming from a lack of understanding, societies biases, or personal experiences. Only by engaging with these individuals and understanding their perspectives can we uncover the root cause of such beliefs.
The question raises important points about the perception of transitioning and its necessity. Below are some possible answers:
- Some argue that gender affirming care isn't "medically necessary" because they fail to understand the profound psychological and emotional distress caused by gender dysphoria, This distress can lead to severe mental health issues like depression or suicidal ideation, which can result from being unable to transition.
- People unfamiliar with the lived experiences of transgender individuals may not recognize the serious implications of such distress. This distress often stems from societies refusal to accept that some people do not conform to traditional gender norms, demanding that others follow their perceived view of the world.
- Some may believe that gender dysphoria can be managed through therapy alone, without medical intervention, like transitioning. However, this view overlooks that for many individuals, transitioning is the most effective and sometimes the only way to alleviate their gender dysphoria.
- The argument may also stem from societies bias against transgender people, where transitioning is viewed as a choice rather than a necessity, dismissing the medical and psychological evidence that supports the benefits of transition related care.
- In some cases, claims that transitioning is unnecessary are driven by financial or political agendas, such as insurance companies or policymakers attempting to justify limiting coverage for gender affirming care.
- Some people might hold philosophical or religious beliefs that reject transitioning as a solution, advocating instead for acceptance of one's assigned gender at birth, regardless of the individual's needs or experiences.
- In the past, gender affirming care was less understood and harder to access, reinforcing the belief that transitioning is optional or unnecessary. While medical advances and stories from transgender individuals have changed this view, some people still hold onto these outdated ideas.
- Some individuals with gender dysphoria may not feel the need to transition or may manage dysphoria without medical interventions. While this leads to generalizations that transitioning is not necessary for everyone, even though it is essential for many.
- Finally, They don't care. They don't care what other people's experiences are. They don't care about anyone else but themselves.
The struggle to understand and accept gender identity is deeply rooted in fear, uncertainty, and ignorance, elements that have been manipulated by those in power for centuries. This isn't just about politics, it's about how individuals and society cope with things that challenge their preconceived notions. Many fail to realize that gender dysphoria is not a choice, but a condition one is born with, regardless of the mechanisms involved.
The difficulty some people face in accepting this stems from the disruption it causes to their own worldview. Take, for instance, a wife's reaction to her partner's transition. Her reaction isn't necessarily about her partner, but about how the transition challenges her sense of normalcy, which is often rooted in traditional views of male/female relationships. Her reliance on these concepts for her own sense of stability and identity can make any deviation seem like a threat. Rather than seeking understanding, some may resort to defence mechanisms to protect their way of life, even at the expense of the happiness of those around them.
Ultimately, as hard as it may be, sometimes it's necessary to acknowledge that people may not understand or accept what they are not experiencing themselves. For a partner, family, or loved one, the transition can feel like an attack on their own identity and that is often difficult to process.
It's crucial, then, to recognize when it might be healthier for everyone involved to step away and find the love and understanding they truly need, rather than staying in a relationship or situation where resentment and misunderstanding grow. This is not a failure, but a recognition of the need for personal and emotional growth for both individuals.
Ultimately, much like measuring the string to understand its length, understanding the necessity of transitioning requires stepping beyond assumptions and engaging with the lived experiences of transgender individuals.
So long story short, people or groups of people feel threatened because we do not conform to their world views and in our society there is always someone who want to control others and in particular us, because we are vulnerable.
Best Wishes AlwaysSarah BGlobal ModeratorPS It must be noted that some of the concluding paragraphs are based on a post made by Sephirah in
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