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Started by Adrian26, April 07, 2025, 07:36:35 AM

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Adrian26

Thanks Ashley! You're right, there ain't no way to know what is gonna happen with my life right now and I probably won't ever fully know what's gonna happen, but as long as I live a fulfilling life it was worth it.
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

tgirlamg

Quote from: Adrian26 on April 12, 2025, 10:48:17 AMThanks Ashley! You're right, there ain't no way to know what is gonna happen with my life right now and I probably won't ever fully know what's gonna happen, but as long as I live a fulfilling life it was worth it.

See! ...You already know the secret of life!... Go have the best one ever! 💕🤗💕

Hugs from your big sister!

A 💕
"To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment" ... Ralph Waldo Emerson 🌸

"The individual has always had to struggle from being overwhelmed by the tribe... But, no price is too high for the privilege of owning yourself" ... Rudyard Kipling 🌸

Let go of the things that no longer serve you... Let go of the pretense of the false persona, it is not you... Let go of the armor that you have worn for a lifetime, to serve the expectations of others and, to protect the woman inside... She needs protection no longer.... She is tired of hiding and more courageous than you know... Let her prove that to you....Let her step out of the dark and feel the light upon her face.... amg🌸

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Adrian26

Quote from: tgirlamg on April 12, 2025, 12:07:29 PMSee! ...You already know the secret of life!... Go have the best one ever! 💕🤗💕

Hugs from your big sister!

A 💕
Thanks sis! You're the best!!
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

Sephirah

Yeah you're gonna get a lot of the maternal vibe here, hon. Maybe making up for some stuff, maybe just a part of life. If you're okay with having a bunch of overly protective moms, we've got you covered. ;D <3

The only thing I want to emphasise, Adrian, is... live for you. Not other people. Don't do anything because it makes other people happy. Find your niche and go for it. Full throttle.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Adrian26

Quote from: Sephirah on April 12, 2025, 05:46:22 PMYeah you're gonna get a lot of the maternal vibe here, hon. Maybe making up for some stuff, maybe just a part of life. If you're okay with having a bunch of overly protective moms, we've got you covered. ;D <3

The only thing I want to emphasise, Adrian, is... live for you. Not other people. Don't do anything because it makes other people happy. Find your niche and go for it. Full throttle.
Definitely alright with overprotective moms! And I'm figuring out what makes me, well me.
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

April Marie

Quote from: Adrian26 on April 11, 2025, 08:05:29 AMGirl I will gladly cook you a good ol' Texas steak and baked potato for some advice any day.
Count me in for that!  ;D

Our journeys are often difficult and filled with pain, but so to are they paths to discover joy and peace. We are here for you. You are loved. We lift each other as we lift ourselves.

Medium rare, please!
With much love,

 April

Intelligence is like underwear. It's important that you have it, but not necessary that you show it off

Adrian26

@April Marie One medium rare steak coming up!
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

Adrian26

Well, I figured out what I want to do with my life: veterinarian! And I'm just doing some random crafts and seeing what I enjoy. I'm becoming an old man crocheting 😭 Butttt it does make me feel content so yeah, that's my life right now
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

Sephirah

Quote from: Adrian26 on April 19, 2025, 01:30:22 PMWell, I figured out what I want to do with my life: veterinarian! And I'm just doing some random crafts and seeing what I enjoy. I'm becoming an old man crocheting 😭 Butttt it does make me feel content so yeah, that's my life right now

Massive respect. Anyone who wants to care for animals is a bit of a hero in my book. I've had several dogs in my life, and had to have a couple put to sleep. The vets I spoke to were so kind and so professional, and even took a paw print of the last pupper I had, and sent it to me. I had it framed. That is something to be very proud of, Adrian. Defend the defenceless.

Also... any form of expression is awesome! Don't let anyone tell you that you shouldn't do something okay? One of the most stand up guys here, Nero, he was big into fashion. But it always worried him because he thought he would be seen as less than for being into it. Which is utter rubbish. Do what makes you happy! <3
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Adrian26

Thanks @Sephirah it means a lot. I've always loved animals and I decided why not. I wanted to go into the medical field, so it works!
And at the moment I'm making a blanket for my girlfriend's daughter. She's an amazing kid and she's obsessed with pink, so hopefully she'll like it. I'll try to show a picture of it when I finish!
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

Sephirah

Quote from: Adrian26 on April 19, 2025, 02:27:32 PMThanks @Sephirah it means a lot. I've always loved animals and I decided why not. I wanted to go into the medical field, so it works!
And at the moment I'm making a blanket for my girlfriend's daughter. She's an amazing kid and she's obsessed with pink, so hopefully she'll like it. I'll try to show a picture of it when I finish!

Massive Kudos. I am a big animal person. Go for it with all your heart, Adrian. We need more people like you.

Please do post a pic if you can. Doing things for other people just to see them smile is a big win. And shows the kind of guy you are.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Adrian26

Quote from: Sephirah on April 19, 2025, 02:33:41 PMMassive Kudos. I am a big animal person. Go for it with all your heart, Adrian. We need more people like you.

Please do post a pic if you can. Doing things for other people just to see them smile is a big win. And shows the kind of guy you are.
Thanks! And seeing that little girl smile is worth every minute of making it!!
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

Sephirah

Never let it be said that nice guys finish last. Whoever came up with that is a total liar. Girls don't want a bad boy. They want someone they can trust and who won't hurt them. You strike me as that kind of guy, Adrian. Your GF is extremely lucky. My own dad was a bit of a b*****d. I suspect you would do much better as a dad because you care. Which is amazing to me.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Adrian26

Quote from: Sephirah on April 19, 2025, 02:51:38 PMNever let it be said that nice guys finish last. Whoever came up with that is a total liar. Girls don't want a bad boy. They want someone they can trust and who won't hurt them. You strike me as that kind of guy, Adrian. Your GF is extremely lucky. My own dad was a bit of a b*****d. I suspect you would do much better as a dad because you care. Which is amazing to me.
You deserved better and I'm proud of you that you're still here and better than what your surroundings were. Many become a product of their environment, but you overcame that and are an amazing woman. I hope I'll become a good father and do good by my partner and new life
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

Sephirah

Quote from: Adrian26 on April 19, 2025, 03:04:40 PMYou deserved better and I'm proud of you that you're still here and better than what your surroundings were. Many become a product of their environment, but you overcame that and are an amazing woman. I hope I'll become a good father and do good by my partner and new life

I know you will, Adrian. Because you asked for help way before I did. You knew who you are and who you wanted to be before the world seeped into your soul. You are kind, and gentle. But also funny and witty. You are open to everything and take life by the horns. And let's face it, you know meat kung-fu, so there's that. :P

Thank you so much. Your words mean a lot. You're right, a lot of people become a product of their environment. It's the job of places like this to ensure that people don't think that's all their life can be. That we can be something more.

Thank you. You are a very special guy.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Adrian26

Thank you! Figuring out who I am and what I want to do is a lot but it's worth it.
And you've been there throughout this whole journey and to me you're an inspiration on living as myself and a good friend.
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍
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Sephirah

Quote from: Adrian26 on April 19, 2025, 03:30:55 PMThank you! Figuring out who I am and what I want to do is a lot but it's worth it.
And you've been there throughout this whole journey and to me you're an inspiration on living as myself and a good friend.

It is a lot, honey. It's a lot of hard work. But you're putting in that work. You're being open about yourself and are not scared to ask for feedback. You're a shining example of what someone can achieve when they don't isolate themselves. When they dare to question and search within themselves. Something too few people do.

The hardest thing we can ever do as people is admit there's something not right. And something we need to change. And... speaking personally... admit that we need help and can't do it all alone.

I wish we had more guys here, Adrian. The site is mostly dominated by girls. So I want to thank you for being here, for putting forward your issues from the other side, as it were. We are not so different, when you look at it. We face the same struggles and the same wants, needs and hopes. It's just... really nice to have that injection of male perspective. So... thank you. <3 And yeah, hon I am going to be there for anyone searching and questioning. Because we are all just trying to find our way. Doesn't matter who you are, what parts you have, how you see yourself. We are all looking for answers and to not feel so alone. :)
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Adrian26

Yeah, I've noticed that I'm surrounded by women, but luckily y'all are awesome! And hopefully more guys will show up with time. But thanks for all the help and encouragement, even when I thought this wasn't worth it you showed me it is. So thank you so much. I hope I get the chance to help someone else like you have with me
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍

Sephirah

Quote from: Adrian26 on April 19, 2025, 03:52:35 PMYeah, I've noticed that I'm surrounded by women, but luckily y'all are awesome! And hopefully more guys will show up with time. But thanks for all the help and encouragement, even when I thought this wasn't worth it you showed me it is. So thank you so much. I hope I get the chance to help someone else like you have with me

You already have, Adrian. Me. :) You are as inspirational as you say I am. It works both ways.
Natura nihil frustra facit.

"You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection." ~ Buddha.

If you're dealing with self esteem issues, maybe click here. There may be something you find useful. :)
Above all... remember: you are beautiful, you are valuable, and you have a shining spark of magnificence within you. Don't let anyone take that from you. Embrace who you are. <3

Adrian26

Quote from: Sephirah on April 19, 2025, 04:21:38 PMYou already have, Adrian. Me. :) You are as inspirational as you say I am. It works both ways.
I hadn't thought of it that way, but I'm honored to know you see me in the same light as I see you
Love who you love, do what you want, and live life to the fullest. They're gonna talk about you anyways so might as well make their conversation interesting. Live as yourself, not someone everyone else wants you to be.
Te amo mi reina hermosa 4/27/2025 🤍