One other thing I would like to add to this is.. please don't be afraid to contact the staff. If you feel something is off, or you feel something should be looked at, with regard to your account or anything else. Don't see these people as out of your reach. They are just like you, trying to make this place the best for you. The staff here aren't untouchable, and above it all. They are normal folks like everyone else. And they all do this voluntarily. They just want the best for you, and for the site.
If you need to, don't feel you can't talk to any of the staff. Danielle is a superstar, and the mods are quite exceptional. I can say this because I know them all personally, and I've done this job for well over a decade. They are here for you. And won't get mad if you call on them, okay?