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Started by Tig58072, July 02, 2025, 06:30:08 AM

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Tig58072

https://www.refugerestrooms.org/

Listings of Trans safe restrooms.
Found it on Facebook this morning.

Moonflower

Great! We have several to add.
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She began MTF HRT but had adverse reactions, so gave up on transitioning medically.
Summer 2022 I went through gender confirmation surgery as a result of cancer.
2024 my wife submitted letters approving of medically transitioning, she's legally changing her name and gender on all of her and our documents and accounts.
January 2025!  SURGERY!

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Tills

Hmmmm ...

A great resource but also kinda sad in a way?

I'm still in the UK and use Ladies and will continue to do so for as long as I'm still here.

There aren't enough police to investigate serious crimes so I doubt anyone is seriously going to confront me in a Ladies. And if they did, then what? If I tell them I'm female what would happen?

The much bigger issue to me here in the UK is about attitudes. The anti-trans (and anti lots of things) rhetoric from the shouty class have given permission to those with ingrained prejudices to join the hate. That's far more of a problem than worrying if a police officer is going to pop up in your cubicle. I notice it: if someone misgenders you and you challenge it they no longer apologise or withdraw the comment. Hostile stares have increased.

Attitudes + Legislation go hand in hand.

The contrast with a country like Ireland is vast and getting vaster.

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Devlyn

Quote from: Tills on July 29, 2025, 11:03:27 PMHmmmm ...

A great resource but also kinda sad in a way?

I'm still in the UK and use Ladies and will continue to do so for as long as I'm still here.

There aren't enough police to investigate serious crimes so I doubt anyone is seriously going to confront me in a Ladies. And if they did, then what? If I tell them I'm female what would happen?

The much bigger issue to me here in the UK is about attitudes. The anti-trans (and anti lots of things) rhetoric from the shouty class have given permission to those with ingrained prejudices to join the hate. That's far more of a problem than worrying if a police officer is going to pop up in your cubicle. I notice it: if someone misgenders you and you challenge it they no longer apologise or withdraw the comment. Hostile stares have increased.

Attitudes + Legislation go hand in hand.

The contrast with a country like Ireland is vast and getting vaster.

xx

There aren't enough police to investigate serious crimes yet the police make daily posts about the e-scooters they've confiscated and crushed.  :(

Here in Barcelona the scooters get their own lanes. Because it makes sense to encourage your populace to use efficient, ecologically friendly modes of transportation.