Thank you all. Don't delete my account and posts, thank God we are safe. A lot has happened during this time, we were literally walking on a knife edge. The human body is fragile, I noticed how I aged over the past year, perhaps due to stress, perhaps for natural reasons.

I watch the world crumble on the periphery. People who chose the path of hatred naively thought that non-binary personalities who go beyond the usual patriarchal family values are harmful to the state. Let's ban them all, and the state will grow stronger, becoming as unbreakable as a rock. Only two genders, we don't need these perverts. But now it is white hetero male who is destroying peace, democracy, and prosperity. What irony.

Quote from: CaringWhisper on July 29, 2025, 09:06:41 PMThank you all. Don't delete my account and posts, thank God we are safe.

Thanks for the update. We are so happy that you are safe and able to rejoin us!
Great pic!

I'm so glad to hear that you are safe. Thank you for letting us know.

Quote from: CaringWhisper on July 29, 2025, 09:06:41 PMThank you all. Don't delete my account and posts, thank God we are safe.

You're very welcome, CaringWhisper, and I'm so glad you and your daughter are safe.

You look wonderful! 🌹

I love your hair, and your cat is adorable. It's good to see you again, feels like it's been a while. 🫂

Quote from: CaringWhisper on July 29, 2025, 09:06:41 PMA lot has happened during this time, we were literally walking on a knife edge.

I know what you mean, reminds me of the forum's slogan "balanced on the sharp edge of a knife."

So fitting right now.

Quote from: CaringWhisper on July 29, 2025, 09:06:41 PMPeople who chose the path of hatred naively thought that non-binary personalities who go beyond the usual patriarchal family values are harmful to the state. Let's ban them all, and the state will grow stronger, becoming as unbreakable as a rock. Only two genders, we don't need these perverts.

Haha, funny enough, I just learned a new phrase in a another thread here today (Thanks to Tills and Devlyn) "anti-trans trans." Watch out for those too, lol.

Just trying to keep things a little light in the middle of all this, but seriously, thank you for your voice and for seeing us.

From one non-binary soul, I appreciate you. 💗


~ Lilis 🌹

Quote from: Lilis on July 30, 2025, 11:10:30 PMJust trying to keep things a little light in the middle of all this, but seriously, thank you for your voice and for seeing us.
From one non-binary soul, I appreciate you. 💗
~ Lilis 🌹

I'm always happy to see you, Lori, Pema. Anti-trans trans sounds funny. In my country, they are launching a national messenger app that will replace your passport, wallet, and transfer all the information on your phone to the authorities. To encourage people to use it, they are attempting to block competitors. I recently heard this joke:
I answer the phone: "Hello, FSB (FBI analog)."
-"How did you know I'm from the FSB? This is my first time calling you.
-"You called me on my turned-off phone."

I was recently outraged by Trump's comment on the Epstein case. He said that after Epstein kidnapped girls from Trump's spa, Trump severed his friendship with Epstein. In other words, Trump confirmed that there were intimidated girls in his spa salon who could simply be taken away like objects. Is this really Western civilization? It feels like two Eastern despots couldn't divide up their property, the good sultan Trump and the bad Epstein. Will the MAGA movement just swallow this? Are they really such lost people?

Epstein: *abuses underage girls*
Trump: we're good friends.
Epstein: *kidnaps girls from Trump*
Trump: If you don't stop, I'll stop being friends with you.
Epstein: *abuses underage girls*
Trump: I am no longer friends with you.

That made me feel sick. Bring me a paper bag.

Quote from: CaringWhisper on July 31, 2025, 02:09:11 AMI'm always happy to see you, Lori, Pema. Anti-trans trans sounds funny.

Same. 🫂💕

Quote from: CaringWhisper on July 31, 2025, 02:09:11 AMThat made me feel sick. Bring me a paper bag

Agree, and it's disturbing, and I appreciate you naming it with that perfect blend of outrage and defiance.

Now before this becomes Too. Many. Politics. and needs moving to that board...

that's all I'll say about that! 

It's nice seeing you back.


Much love,

~ Lilis 🌹

Quote from: Lilis on July 31, 2025, 11:13:13 PMNow before this becomes Too. Many. Politics. and needs moving to that board...

I don't like politics, I just got angry. I imagined revenge, how all the people I hated were lying dying and twisting in terrible agony, bleeding to death. And suddenly I didn't want revenge, I wanted to preserve my humanity. Even a lousy sheep has a tuft of wool, as we say, even terrible people like Trump can be useful, they help us find common ground with our shadow. In each of us there is a dark basement where our doppelganger, who has been exiled, lives. We don't let anyone into this basement and we don't go down there ourselves. This basement is also home to scary monsters, such as suppressed aggression, animal impulses, unresolved conflicts, destructive thoughts, everything we condemn, and everything we don't want to be, but what we really are. This basement is a very resourceful part of ourselves. In addition to monsters, there are very valuable resources there that we once had to suppress in order to stay in touch with other people. Suppressing ourselves is very mentally exhausting, so when we look into this basement, the tension subsides. A mother who suppresses herself too much will hurt her daughter. For a woman to love her daughter, she must love herself. When she has too much shame, she will suppress her daughter, the ideal continuation of herself, the ideal container of this dark basement. This basement with shadows is especially evident in women or transgender people, because historically and socially, most prohibitions have been imposed on women. In women, this basement with shadows is very, very large, simply enormous. The more righteous a person is in front of you, the more ideal they are, the more terrifying and evil the shadow living in their basement is. And if you don't bring this shadow out of your basement, you will not live your own life. Look at Trump as if he were a mirror; he is a monster sitting somewhere deep inside us. Let that orange face with its ridiculous hairstyle remind us of our darkness; every person has this darkness inside, it is natural. I love my daughter, I went down this path because I stopped suppressing myself.

CaringWhisper, that is one hell of a post.

I always appreciate your poetic, artistic, and therapeutic way of expressing things.

I do love a bit of Shadow Work myself, but I'll need to sit with this one for a couple of days, and read it more than twice before I can offer a proper reply.

There's a lot going on in my own basement, and I haven't dared peek down there in a while.

I think they're doing construction without permits.

Thanks for this clarification.


~ Lilis 🌷

My mum says the devil looks after their own but he takes his payment. Kick back will happen one day.

Quote from: Lilis on Today at 12:05:30 AMI think they're doing construction without permits.

Just remind them that without you, they will die, and that it is in their own best interests to protect you and warn you about the construction.

Quote from: davina61 on Today at 02:48:07 AMMy mum says the devil looks after their own but he takes his payment. Kick back will happen one day.

He cannot protect because he owns nothing; he was created by his master and did not appear on his own. He is not equal to his master, and his existence has only one purpose - to be an executioner. What many people mistake for care is just a delay in execution. They say it's better to have a terrible end than endless terror, waiting can be the worst kind of torture, if you subconsciously realize what kind of sentence you will receive in the end, and you cannot ignore this realization.