Hi polymorphic. The first thing that came to mind when I read your original post was "define true androgyne". There are so many different ways to be an androgyne that we really have to be careful to speak in general terms about what an androgyne is compared to someone else. And that "true" really struck me in the craw, no offense intended. I've seen too many groups play the whole "->-bleeped-<-r than thou" game. All it really does is divides people. If you say you're an androgyne then by god you're an androgyne. No need to qualify that.
Some androgynes want to change their looks, some don't. I know I'd love to. You're talking to a big old 6' rock monster here. That's hardly androgynous looking. I can't decide if I want to do anything about how I look but either way I'm still an androgyne. Unlike transsexuals, there aren't different classifications of androgynes depending on whether you've had anything done or even if you want anything done. Are you not a |man| and not a |woman|? To me, that's all that matters.
Nothing you do regarding your androgyny is right or wrong, at least not in terms of some big rule book. There's only the matter of what's right and wrong for you. If you want to change how you look, fine. If you don't, that's fine too. (If you want to change how someone else looks, that's usually unlawful or illegal.)
Heresy? Hardly. Look at some of the old threads in this forum from 6 months or a year ago. Just about everything was fair game for discussion. There is no heresy in the androgyne forum. There are only honest questions and thoughts.
