Thanks for the kind words. I'm trying to cut her some slack. I can completely relate to being a control freak right now. It's almost like 2 people are going to the same city for completely different reasons. She's really focusing in on tourist attractions and making sure she has her swimming suit packed. Me, on the other hand, is focused on making sure I have my meds and paperwork packed and the touristy stuff is secondary. Just a little bit ago, she reminded me to pack my swimming suit cuz I'll probably want to go swimming. Well, right now the idea of having to wear a female swimming suit really bothers me and she doesn't see why it would. It's just frustrating - just when I think she understands how I feel she goes and says something that makes me think otherwise.
Alex