Why would you blame anyone for our TG'ism. It's just not anyones fault. You wouldn't put blame on anyone for haveing red hair (sorry Robyn) or haveing a mole on your arm or any one thing that makes you, you. We are who we are and we can't deny ourselves unless we become very sick over the years. I don't even blame my son who has denied me the chance for him to get to know me. He believes that this is wrong and so I won't interfere with his decision, maybe he will come around later in life. No blame here.
Sheila