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Why do I sometimes get the feeling I've invaded a preschool?

Started by Nero, July 21, 2008, 01:27:47 PM

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cindybc

Thank you much, Nichole, for the get well wish. Oh, that little red-headed kid with the freckles and missing front tooth is doing well.

Speaking of skipping down the road, well I don't really skip but I love to dance on the sidewalk when Wing Walker goes for a walk with me. I am going to miss the walks. I did find a clearing in the woods at the bottom of the hill that I would love to investigate. I couldn't go in there today because I would need to wear slacks instead of a skirt in order to go in there. I have seen this clearing several times as it is and feels so inviting, I just need to go in there and scout around, the energy coming from there is amazing. Yep, you can bet your nicest pair of high heeled patent leather boots I still love exploring abandoned fields, old pathways in the woods, and abandoned buildings.

My last encounter with an abandoned building was when I was 9 years old. The kitchen was still intact, complete with rusted kitchen implements, pots and pans. There use to be two bedrooms upstairs but its floor had partially collapsed down into the living room where the stairs use to be. I also noticed there was a doorway beneath where the upstairs floor had collapsed. Within I could see this old fashioned metal-framed grandma bed, complete with foot board and head board and bronze bed posts.

The wind every now and then would whistle through the open spaces and the gaping windows upstairs, lending a forlorn feeling to the place, the kind of feeling that leaves goose bumps to show on ones arms. Where there used to be a living room I looked around and found the remnants of a ratty old couch which I sat on. I must have slipped away into sleep as I had a dream, not scary but interesting.

I could see the mom in the kitchen busying herself as she whistled a tune. In the living room, I nearly jumped out of my skin, there was this man sitting beside me on the couch, he was reading a newspaper and appeared to be oblivious to my existence. There was this old fashion TV set, the one with the round, 12-inch screen. It was on, but no one was paying it any attention. I heard some sounds like that of two children playing somewhere. They were  in the bedroom with the grandma bed and bronze posts. It was a boy and a girl, very close to the same age.

When I woke up I could still remember the full contents of the dream, still do to this day.     

Cindy
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Pica Pica

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'For the circle may be squared with rising and swelling.' Kit Smart
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Nero

I agree that children aren't to be taken seriously. Would you take a 10 year old girl seriously?

Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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Jaimey

I almost missed a whole discussion! 

I'd be the kid with the dirty mouth on the playground.  Yeah...

I also think that one way that at least I've maintained a childlike outlook is retaining the gentleness of children.  A lot of people I know thrive on drama and revenge and things like that.  But I think those of us that have remained gentle are much more aware of how our actions affect other people and we are just more kind.  Also, maybe we just don't reject childhood.  So many kids I knew were in a hurry to grow up.  I wanted to stay a kid forever. 

...my friends and I still play sardines.  It's important to play!  We spend far more time playing than we do being serious.  Board games, movies, video games, sardines, scavenger hunts, costume contests (at Halloween), etc...there's never a dull or serious moment.


Cindy and Wing Walker,

I'm glad you're all right!  :icon_flower:  I have to say though, I think the falling is more frightening for our loved ones than us.  :)  I know I put my share of gray hairs on my family's heads from falling off things...or out of the attic (only once though :P).
If curiosity really killed the cat, I'd already be dead. :laugh:

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these." GWC
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Shana A

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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cindybc

Pica Pica is a cute teady bear.

Thank you Jaimey, I had a bad habit of climbing Pine trees and then froze when I got to the top and my dad use to have to climb up to get me. One time I climbed up to high and my dad wasn't home and mom had to phone the neighbor to come over with a long ladder to get me out of the tree.  Falling? Well mostly when I was out riding my Radio Flyer wagon down the wooden board walk that went down a fairly steep hill, lots of fun unless you went off the wooden sidewalk and end up in the mud and gravel. Oh my goodness I'll stop here, it's a wonder I survived to see my teen years. Mom just patched me up without complaint and my dad sucked me up.

Cindy 
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JonasCarminis

pica pica!  you are so cute. XP   ive decided that inside, i do fit the androgyne label closely.  but thats almost a contradiction. >_>
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Constance

Quote from: Zythyra on July 21, 2008, 04:15:26 PM
Quote from: tekla on July 21, 2008, 03:51:59 PM
I'm just going to stick my tongue out and say "nay-nay-nay"!

Reebs draws line with finger in sandbox....

Pica dances in sandbox, eliminating all lines...

Tekla tips over sandbox....

Z points finger and wails "Sheeeeee started it!"

Nero has breakdown... runs from forest screaming....

>:D >:D >:D >:D >:D

Z
You seem to have captured the very essence of this forum.  ;D

Posted on: August 06, 2008, 09:44:51 AM
Quote from: Nero on July 21, 2008, 04:58:06 PM
It's not so much embarassment Simone, as just the simple realization that while you thought you were carrying on an adult conversation, you suddenly see a bunch of kindergartners sitting in a circle before you with rapt attention and you've said way too much and all of it inappropriate for tender ears.
I have two teenagers in my house. Fear not; my ears lost their tenderness long ago.

Posted on: August 06, 2008, 09:46:46 AM
Quote from: Lokaeign on July 23, 2008, 10:44:44 AM
I like to inject a little playfulness into my interactions with others when I can.
I agree.

One of the problems with message boards as a communications medium is that the tone of voice can't be heard and body language can't be observed. I've posted comments that to me seem inoccuous but had been perceived as scathing. So, I, too, try to be a little playful.

It's not that I'm being flippant or not serious. It's just that I don't want to come across as harsh.

Posted on: August 06, 2008, 09:52:21 AM
Quote from: Nero on July 24, 2008, 06:27:00 PM
I agree that children aren't to be taken seriously. Would you take a 10 year old girl seriously?
That would depend on what the girl said.

tekla

Would you take a 10 year old girl seriously?

Sure.  Most 10 year olds are pretty smart.  I kinda love that age, wish I could have frozen my kids in time right about the time they were 10.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Huggyrei

For e, as a child I was very serious and thought hard about things and had a tendency to tell adults off if they were doing things I thought were wrong (when I was 3 I told off a bunch of teenagers who were throwing stones at a cat in the park, didn't even occur to me it ight be dangerous to say something), and as an adolescent quie self conscious and shy. However, I always liked imagining and pretending things, and was very disappointed when I got to secondary school and everyone else thought that was too childish now.

If anything, I'm far more playful and silly as an adult than I ever was as a child! It's easier now to find like minded people and hang around with them, which means I don't need to worry about it. I'm now willing to do things like burst into song in the midle of the street, play on the poles on the tube trains, and run around the park with rubber swords.

(again, apologies; just reading through old posts and wanted to comment on some of them)
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Nero

Quote from: Huggyrei on January 19, 2013, 03:57:43 AM

(again, apologies; just reading through old posts and wanted to comment on some of them)

No prob. There's a lot of good stuff from way back there - a lot of the newer regulars haven't even seen yet.  :)
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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hazelspikes

Most of the time, I feel older than my dorm floor or the band (though this might be because my family thinks that I matured in the 8th grade). I just don't really understand all the screaming or the jokes. I mean-I get it, but I don't laugh.

The rest of the time, I watch cartoons/read comics/watch Doctor Who and cuddle with my friends. Or make faces and threaten to punch 'em.
With a laptop, my mounds of books, and history handouts, I could rule the world! Or, just think about my self-identity and help the world through being kind and teaching.
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foosnark

Are we more playful and less serious than people who stick closer to the binary?  Eh, maybe.  I don't really try to analyze it too much.

I think the main problem I have with the idea of "being an adult" is you're supposed to change the way you think, the way you act, and so on.  You have to provide a serious and "mature" role model to younger people so when they age they too are able to act as serious and "mature" role models for the next generation, so they in turn can... but why?

Some things about adulthood really rock.  (Besides alcohol and sex.)  So many different kinds of independence! While we do become responsible for ourselves, that doesn't mean we have to stop playing and start taking this ridiculous, absurd world seriously.  My actual childhood was kind of unhappy (due to emotional issues and not understanding that not fitting in was FINE) but it's been getting better bit by bit since my early 20s.  I'm 41 and having the best childhood ever.

Over Christmas vacation my wife and I were in a store and spotted a brown fuzzy winter earflap hat with bear ears on it.  It matches my beard.  Of course I bought it, and my Facebook profile pic is me wearing it with a happy, serene expression.

So that's what I think.  Like I said, I don't really try to analyze it, I just live it and enjoy it.  :angel:
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Huggyrei

Anyone else an XKCD fan? M favourite comic is "Grown-ups".

Dialogue:

"Hey, I was wondering if you had plans for... holy crap, what happened to your appartment?"
"I filled it with playpen balls."
"I... what? Why?"
"Because we're grown-ups now, and it's our turn to decide what that means."
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