Quote from: Northern Jane on August 10, 2008, 12:00:05 PM
I think I am going to start looking for an FtM! Should be no issues there!

Yep it sounds exciting. The only FtM I ever met was gorgeous.. I only saw him once, when I visited a gender group. He was one of the people working at the front desk, and of course, being the curious person I am I had to ask 'what do you identify as' and he told me he kind of identifies as FtM and/or dyke. He seemed more man than lesbian though

Evidently the entire planet.  I set up a MySpace account last night and as I always am, I was open about myself.  So now the entire planet knows.

Mistress Janet

Quote from: Janet Lynn on August 11, 2008, 08:18:14 AM
Evidently the entire planet.  I set up a MySpace account last night and as I always am, I was open about myself.  So now the entire planet knows.

Mistress Janet

Interesting. Are you as open as that at work or college etc?

Pretty much, Why not the world will find out soon enough.

Mistress Janet

Quote from: Janet Lynn on August 12, 2008, 09:00:53 AM
Pretty much, Why not the world will find out soon enough.

Mistress Janet

Yes. I can see it from both angles actually. I naturally want to tell people, but then since trying the other method it seems good too. I guess both have their good parts. Have you ever tried keeping it all 'quiet'?

I might go stealth after SRS.  That is something that isn't anyone business. But until I see more changes I remain out.  It does cover a multitude of sins.

Mistress Janet

Quote from: Janet Lynn on August 12, 2008, 10:09:27 PM
It does cover a multitude of sins.
Mistress Janet

I know what u mean there

this is somthing I haven't had much of a chance to deal with yet as I'm still only starting my journy into transitioning,  but all my life I have had a very feminine voice,  over the phone you'd think I was female, which I think is great :-)

but I think the suggestion of not telling people and letting them come to their own conclusion is a good one.  except friends of course if i were in that situation i'd most definately tell my friends and family. 

I don't tell anyone unless they ask, and then I am completely open.  Being 6'3" I am closely scrutinized as a very "tall woman", and I can usually tell when people read me, but  it really does not bother me anymore.  I just have fun with it and go on.  But of course, if I was romantically interested in someone, I would tell them before we slept together, that I have breasts and a penis.  I wouldn't want to surprise them.