I am a lonely transwoman in the danger of totally collapsing. I do things always wrongly. My life is full of severe mistakes. I have a very little to tell about myself. I have messed my life with authorities and I have to maybe leave my country. (I have not commited any criminal act.)

I'm sorry to hear that, dear.

However, if you've made enough mistakes that you may have to flee your country, I would think you have a LOT to tell about yourself! Care to share any of that?

Some of us may have had similar problems, and may be able to offer suggestions, or at least hope that there's light at the end of the tunnel.

After all, the worst that can happen is that someone will tell you, "Yes, sister, you've had problems, and we feel for you. Now that you've vented, fix your mascara and get on with your life."

War is soon coming here within months.

Yikes! That's terrible!

But the impending war doesn't have anything to do with you being trans, or the mistakes you've made, does it? Sounds like you're just in the wrong place at the wrong time.

I assume you're not the only person who fears that war is imminent. Could you use that as an excuse to emigrate to a friendly country? When asked why you're leaving, tell them it's because of the possible war. If you're lucky, you could leave your past mistakes behind, and start fresh.

I may get help from some kind people here!

Hello, goingdown. I hope there will be no war where you are. And I hope that as you talk with us you'll find that you needn't be totally alone and down.

Hang in there and do the best you can to keep yourself afloat.

Welcome to Susan's!

Nichole