I printed out a bunch of stuff, edited it to fit me and my company, and spoke with my HR manager person yesterday. She was like whatever, cool, gave me a hug, said there'd be no issues. But then she hasn't spoken to the other managers yet, etc. I'm not sure it sunk in why I had to come out to HR and not just announce that no, I'm not gay, I'm trans to my coworkers (um things like pronoun usage, non-discrimination, name change, you know, the legal stuff!). So...
The ball is rolling. I figured now that my DL says Jonathan and Male it was time to let the powers that be know. After the HR person's reaction I may have put too much stuff in the packet. Oh well.
Jay