QuoteFtMs, because they generally look feminine

Thanks Melissa.
Feminine?!? Well, definitely my voice and my face is kind of ...well...
But, I can't look that feminine, if I'm constantly being "mistaken" for a guy.
Well, except for the "pregnant" incidents.

Nero

I meant as opposed to the square jaw and neanderthal brow.  I'm sorry, but I tend to like more feminine looking men.

Melissa

The FtM men I know all of them look like well masculine men to me... especially my best friends SO with his muscular frame and scruffy looking face. (she doesn't leave us two in the house by ourselves!!LOL)

as for my sexuality...
I like people!
Regardless of your gender or whats between you legs... I'm versatile type of girl who will take you as you present yourself!
As long as you stimulate my intellect and have good conversation then I can see myself being attracted to you..The physical aspect usually falls into place if the mental connect is there of course it helps if your just cute as heck too!!

guess that makes me "Tri-sexual!"

Cool!

Refusing to stay still on the sexuality spectrum
Chynna

Well, you identified as gay before you identified as TS, whereas I identified as straight before I identified as TS.  I think that's one of the primary differences.  While I agree that it's people before physical (and I have felt interested in very masculine looking men before), I do have some hang-ups about certain things, but that's just me.  By square jaw, I was referring more to the bone structure than muscle. 

Oh forget it. Nevermind.  I'm just insulting everyone.  Sorry.

Melissa

No insulted taken on my part..
I think I identified as straight first (kidding myself of course), then Gay, then BI, and final TS
but I think I get where your coming from But I ain't gonna try to explain it in text! LOL
Ok maybe
I have been attracted to certain FtM TS's that despite how much masculinity they had I still sensed this Feminine vibe. Maybe it was because I knew they were FtM and that preprogrammed by society part of my brain was still see the feminine aspect I dont know Ill smack myself in the forehead later for being so narrow minded.

QuoteI do have some hang-ups about certain things, but that's just me.

Hang-ups about certain things I'm intrigued?........If your willing to tell
LOL

Chynna

Sorry, no. That's private.

Melissa

You didn't insult me, Melissa. I'm just sensitive right now, because I feel really manly until I open my mouth or take off my shirt, then I feel bad. Every time I shower, I have to look at these firm, perfect breasts (I haven't bound much since puberty) that I would love on a woman, but not on me.
So I guess I'm ultra-sensitive to the word "feminine" right now.

Nero thinking binding might not be so uncomfortable after all

Nero, I'm sure you probably do look manly.  That's different than extremely masculine.  I don't like a certain part of mine as well, but I don't think it makes me any less "womanly".

Melissa

QuoteThat's different than extremely masculine.

Exactly. I'm not hypermasculine in any sense of the word and I'm hoping I take after my father who has very little body hair.
It's likely if I develop body hair, I'll wax the majority of it off.
I would like somewhat of a beard, though.

Nero always concerned with aesthetics

See, that's exactly the kind of thing I like.   However, a little hint.  Most women don't like beards because they're scratchy.

Melissa

^{*devilish giggle*}
An some of us do because they are nice... (scratchy or not) -- I find it depends on the guy if he looks better with a given beard style, or clean shaven.

^*wink*
No matter what you do or who you are there is someone out there that so digs your grove. It is a weird weird world.