Anything you post online is archived somewhere and in the future likely to make a return. Just because you cannot find it does not mean someone else can't.

Many of you play a dangerous game on here with this sort of thing. I have been dealing with online stalkers for the last 10 years, death threats, people showing up at my door, strange IM's, computers hacked and more... If someone were inclined to find you, they could find many of you in a matter of hours. If I can, I know they can.


Now you probably wonder why anyone would come after you.
Why do fans/stalkers shoot and kill the performer they like? These people are nuts. They get fixated, and that is all it requires. You do not have to be famous, you just have to be. You never know what will place you in the eyes of the public, or more specifically that crackpot who comes looking for you.

I have to be more careful because of what I do and have done in the past, but trust me, even posting here has garnered me unwanted attention and I keep this entirely separate from my other online activities.

Oh, and it doesn't take a genius to figure out many of us are easy targets. How many here are longing for a relationship, how many are inexperienced in this and could easily fall prey to someone out to use you.

This goes double (or more) for the girls, as a transwoman you not only have the freaks who chase normal women, but now you have the ->-bleeped-<-s, religious groups, and probably a few others who despise us all keeping an eye out for us. Most of us didn't grow up with the same fears and teachings normal girls did and you no longer have the strength or image of strength you once had.

Please be careful. 

Quote from: shanetastic on December 09, 2008, 11:46:12 PM
All I have to say is that it's all about the Facebook! :]

Noone wants to know what you have to say, loserface

Quote from: Leslie Ann on December 10, 2008, 06:34:53 AM
Anything you post online is archived somewhere and in the future likely to make a return.

Sure is:
http://web.archive.org/web/19980614000117/https://www.susans.org/
http://web.archive.org/web/19981202230410/http://www.google.com/
<3 the wayback machine.

Quote from: Vexing on December 10, 2008, 01:24:20 PMSure is:
http://web.archive.org/web/19980614000117/https://www.susans.org/
http://web.archive.org/web/19981202230410/http://www.google.com/
<3 the wayback machine.

Hahaha. Wow, what a blast from the very distant web-past!

~Simone.

myspace.com/thingishere

I updated mine to say I'm female, that I'm transsexual, and my new location as of a few days from now.

Hopefully it's convincingly female aside the disclaimer of being MtF.

I think it's very convincingly female. But then that's natural 'cause you are female.

~Simone.

Hey Annwyn, love the new avatar. Totally cute, I must say. As far as your MySpace, "convincingly female" is relative. It's still pretty much just a default look besides that awesome background. If you want "convincingly female" then add some pink and hearts and stuff, lol, but is that convincingly "you"?

Quote from: SarahR on December 11, 2008, 12:41:49 AM
If you want "convincingly female" then add some pink and hearts and stuff, lol, but is that convincingly "you"?

...

Point well taken.