I think the Christian God is both anti-life and anti-choice, per a literal reading of the Bible. He seems to spend a lot of time cursing, slaughtering, and damning people for not doing what he says. It's really very much like an infinitely one-sided abusive relationship.
I know that people have different interpretations of Christianity, but the simple fact is that the God depicted in Scripture is not a nice or loving guy, and you have to discount most of Christianity's own history, teachings, and holy writings in order to claim otherwise - and if you're going to do that, why don't you call your religion something else? Stop trying to "reclaim" it from the people you disagree with, and just be the better person by walking away.
Even though I dislike uber-fundamentalist Christianity, I have to credit the fundies with being more consistent than mainstream Christians. The Christian (and Jewish) God described in Scripture really is an awful, hateful, violent, raving bastard lunatic, and the fundies understand and embrace that. If your God isn't like that, then stop trying to excuse or explain away all that stuff - it just doesn't wash. Walk away from it. Turn the other cheek, so to speak.
EDIT: This isn't directed at anyone here... it's just a general commentary on all the Christians IRL who don't seem to realize that they're wrestling with pigs by trying to take the "Christian" label away from the fundies.