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It's Official! I'm a girl!!!

Started by Sandy, January 02, 2009, 01:53:59 PM

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Sandy

Pat just called me and said that my amended birth certificate just showed up.  I am now listed as having been born female.  The truth has finally been revealed.

Interesting that it took just over nine months for it to show up from when I sent in the documentation.

This is last major piece of my documentation change.  When I first came back from Dr. McGinn's and had the gender change documents in my hand, I thought I would mount my amended certificate on the wall.

Interestingly enough, I no longer feel that compelled.  I will certainly file it with my other important documents and put them all in a safe deposit drawer.  But having to proclaim my birthright to the world doesn't seem necessary now.  I know I'm a woman (I have for quite a long while), and everyone else knows I am a woman, so what's the big deal?

Yes, it has been a big deal to get to this point, but from here on, I just want to get on with my life.  I'm as feminine as the next girl and I don't need a piece of paper to prove it.

Interesting.

-Sandy
Out of the darkness, into the light.
Following my bliss.
I am complete...
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Chrissty

Sandy,

It's nice to finally hear some good news today!

:icon_hug:

Chrissty
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coolJ

Hey congrats there pretty lady! I envy you!!!!!  :D
Life is short, wear the shoes and eat the brownies!!!!!!---coolJ

Cast in this unlikely role, ill equipped to act, with insufficiant tact, one must put up barriers to keep oneself intact.---Rush
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Wendy C

Sandy my warmest wishes and congratulations Hon. You always were a girl though. Hugs

Wendy
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Constance


postoplesbian

But did you get the balloon saying so?   ;D


3 CHEERLEADERS TO YOU    :D
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Ellil

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iminadaze

That is wonderful news Sandy, here ya go girl


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SusanK

That's cool and you can get the rest done. And give thanks it's possible. Some folks can't as the state still doesn't allow it (TN and OH at last count) and some won't or don't recognize it for some purposes (KS and TX that I know of).
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tekla

Then don't live in Texas, Kansas or Ohio, which is damn good advice no matter what.

Tennessee is a toss up, very pretty, wrong population.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Mika N.

Sandy,

I envy you so much!  I hope someday to reach that point.  Congrats!

Mika
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Suzy

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postoplesbian

Quote from: tekla on January 02, 2009, 04:48:53 PM
Then don't live in Texas, Kansas or Ohio, which is damn good advice no matter what.

Tennessee is a toss up, very pretty, wrong population.

Uh its not a matter where you live its a matter where your born  :police:
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Suzy

Quote from: postoplesbian on January 02, 2009, 05:21:29 PM

Uh its not a matter where you live its a matter where your born  :police:

Yeah, my thought, too.  Now if there were only a way to change that.......

Kristi
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tekla

I can't remember the last time anyone asked for it, other than the feds, who will take court documents to change your passport. 

And an amended certificate of live birth, is just that.  It does not change the original record, held in several places, on different media.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Janet_Girl

It seems to be an unimportant piece of paper, but it is a milestone.

Congratulations, Sandy

Janet

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tekla

Anytime you can get the government to do anything for you is a milestone anymore.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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SusanK

Quote from: Kristi on January 02, 2009, 05:28:32 PM
Quote from: postoplesbian on January 02, 2009, 05:21:29 PM

Uh its not a matter where you live its a matter where your born  :police:

Yeah, my thought, too.  Now if there were only a way to change that.......

Kristi

And sadly that's the reality with some and the biggest road block in their transistion. And while it's funny to make an off-hand comment about these states, it doesn't help those who have to live with their laws.
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SusanK

Quote from: tekla on January 02, 2009, 05:51:36 PM
I can't remember the last time anyone asked for it, other than the feds, who will take court documents to change your passport.

No one because passports are federal documents issued by the State Department. They and they alone determine the rules and controls the process to get one. They rely on other agencies' information about you if they need or want to know.
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Shana A

"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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