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Started by Pica Pica, February 06, 2009, 12:42:56 PM

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V M

The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Pica Pica

i cut my hair three times a year whether I need it or not.
'For the circle may be squared with rising and swelling.' Kit Smart
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Nero

Quote from: Pica Pica on February 06, 2009, 06:23:41 PM
i cut my hair three times a year whether I need it or not.

you shouldn't. it doesn't become you.
Nero was the Forum Admin here at Susan's Place for several years up to the time of his death.
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Shana A

Quote from: Virginia Marie on February 06, 2009, 04:14:06 PM
Quote from: Pica Pica on February 06, 2009, 03:39:48 PM
hate it when that happens
My skirt flew up and some neighbors were staring in my window. So I gave them a lil' tail shake and smiled
  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:

I'd tell you you're a bad girl but you'd probably like that  ;) >:-)

Z
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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V M

Quote from: Zythyra on February 06, 2009, 06:24:55 PM
Quote from: Virginia Marie on February 06, 2009, 04:14:06 PM
Quote from: Pica Pica on February 06, 2009, 03:39:48 PM
hate it when that happens
My skirt flew up and some neighbors were staring in my window. So I gave them a lil' tail shake and smiled
  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:

I'd tell you you're a bad girl but you'd probably like that  ;) >:-)

Z
Will you spank me and say that?  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Shana A

Quote from: Virginia Marie on February 06, 2009, 06:27:30 PM
Quote from: Zythyra on February 06, 2009, 06:24:55 PM
Quote from: Virginia Marie on February 06, 2009, 04:14:06 PM
Quote from: Pica Pica on February 06, 2009, 03:39:48 PM
hate it when that happens
My skirt flew up and some neighbors were staring in my window. So I gave them a lil' tail shake and smiled
  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:

I'd tell you you're a bad girl but you'd probably like that  ;) >:-)

Z
Will you spank me and say that?  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:

Why did I know you'd say that!  :D

Z
"Be yourself; everyone else is already taken." Oscar Wilde


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V M

Quote from: Zythyra on February 06, 2009, 06:28:47 PM
Quote from: Virginia Marie on February 06, 2009, 06:27:30 PM
Quote from: Zythyra on February 06, 2009, 06:24:55 PM
Quote from: Virginia Marie on February 06, 2009, 04:14:06 PM
Quote from: Pica Pica on February 06, 2009, 03:39:48 PM
hate it when that happens
My skirt flew up and some neighbors were staring in my window. So I gave them a lil' tail shake and smiled
  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:

I'd tell you you're a bad girl but you'd probably like that  ;) >:-)

Z
Will you spank me and say that?  :laugh: >:-) :laugh:

Why did I know you'd say that!  :D

Z
You know me..... :laugh: >:-) :laugh:
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Kinkly

I don't think I'm egocentric, on this site most of my posts are me focused but IRL like when playing with my neice & Nephiew it's all about them and when talking with others I want to know about them as much as I'm willing to show / tell them about me
I don't want to be a man there from Mars
I'd Like to be a woman Venus looks beautiful
I'm enjoying living on Pluto, but it is a bit lonely
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RebeccaFog

Did I just hear you pronounce the 'T' in the word 'often'?





Quote[from wikipedia]
In psychology, egocentrism is defined as a) the incomplete differentiation of the self and the world, including other people and b) the tendency to perceive, understand and interpret the world in terms of the self. The term derives from the Greek egĂ´, meaning "I". An egocentric person has a limited theory of mind, cannot fully "put himself in other peoples' shoes," and believes everyone sees what he/she sees (or that what he/she sees, in some way, exceeds what others see).

Quote"put himself in other peoples' shoes,"
I can put myself iin other peoples' shoes sometimes.  Sometimes not as if I'm distant from them though I still wish for them the best.

Quotebelieves everyone sees what he/she sees (or that what he/she sees, in some way, exceeds what others see)
I fall into this trap a LOT.  I believe that what I see is obvious to everyone.  I'm only just learning to stop myself before assuming that my opinions should be shared by everyone else.  I also sometimes feel that what I see exceeds what others are seeing.

This has been an interesting discussion.

last week I was hanging out with someone who is not a christian fundamentalist and who doesn't believe in evolution.  I thought they were kidding and when I realized they weren't, I had to stop myself from thinking they are an ignorant pudhead.   It's okay if someone does not see something in the same way that I do.  It's okay.  It. Is. Okay.   

But, is it okay in the case of evolution?    :-\

I can't shake it
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V M

I've tried on a few dif. shoes from time to time. Some fit. Some were a bit tight. Some just broke from the pressure of my big feet. I guess it's all about quality and fit.(is there some odd hidden message there?) Maybe, why do you ask?
I've often noticed that most do not see what I see. No problem.

Is it better to be poor and alive or wealthy and dead?
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


- V M
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Pica Pica

believes everyone sees what he/she sees

that is I, down to the he/she.
'For the circle may be squared with rising and swelling.' Kit Smart
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Simone Louise

I, personally, would choose another definition: "centered in or arising from a person's own existence or perspective", and opine that, in order to buck society's view of genders, we have to be egocentric. It's all very simple, really. Anybody ought to be able to see it.

Long or short hair, sie is cute.

Humbly,
S
Choose life.
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ZaidaZadkiel

I prefeer pica with longish hair.
But then, I'm hair-o-phile, whatever the word for that is.

Let me tell you about everybody's favorite subject: me :D

Today I was in a meeting, there was I and Customer and SomeGuy. SomeGuy, I imagined, was worred about me "taking his job". I tried to make it clear that I didn't want to do that. SomeGuy is married and is young and likes stabilty, I'm young and I like instability. Thus I only wish to do this job and GTFO from here.

I was constantly asking "Do I make sense?" and "Do you understand what I'm saying?"
and they were like "oh, yes yes."
But I fear that I might not have explained myself well.

Maybe it's because sometimes I don't understand myself, and I expect other people to "not understand me" too.

But the *weirdest* part, for me, is that almost everybody whom I told me my story of SomeGuy and Customer, were like "yah kill SomeGuy and defecate on his grave!"
While my main worry was not to leave SomeGuy out of a job O.o;

Is that weird ?
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RebeccaFog

You're not weird.  The people who want you to bury the guy are dinks.
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Nicky

I don't think I am egocentric - perhaps a little inward looking. But then it sort of goes with the territory of being the centre of the universe don't ya thing?  ;)
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Jaimey

Quote from: Nicky on February 08, 2009, 01:11:17 PM
I don't think I am egocentric - perhaps a little inward looking. But then it sort of goes with the territory of being the centre of the universe don't ya thing?  ;)

Hey now!  We can't BOTH be the center of the universe!  Nickyum delenda est!  :icon_evil_laugh:  (look!  I made you neuter! ;D)

eh-hem. 


I watched it again.  Maybe we could be seen as egocentric because we want to be seen as ourselves, not as what we look like.  We want others to perceive us as we perceive us and get annoyed when they don't.

For example, I had a date Friday and, to my horror, I girled it up and was treated like a girl.  Now, that's my fault for buying into the whole gender thing, but I was annoyed that I felt like I had to do that.  >:(


on a side note, what the hell is up with bras these days?!  i bought a couple new ones and now every time i look down, i feel like sticking my chest out and saying "dandadadaaa! i have a breasts!"  geezus.  i want support, not a shelf.
If curiosity really killed the cat, I'd already be dead. :laugh:

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these." GWC
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Pica Pica

i could do with a cleavage, to hold my pens in.
'For the circle may be squared with rising and swelling.' Kit Smart
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Jaimey

Quote from: Pica Pica on February 08, 2009, 03:33:05 PM
i could do with a cleavage, to hold my pens in.

hah!  Nice.  Underwire is killer though.

in fact, i'd like to imprison the sadist that created it and poke them all day long for at least 100 years


!!!  This is my 1,000th post!  :laugh:  And I posted about bras... ::)
If curiosity really killed the cat, I'd already be dead. :laugh:

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these." GWC
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RebeccaFog


I could do with a shelf to hold my milkshake.
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Jaimey

Quote from: Rebis on February 08, 2009, 03:41:55 PM

I could do with a shelf to hold my milkshake.

Put a straw in it and you won't even need hands...
If curiosity really killed the cat, I'd already be dead. :laugh:

"How far you go in life depends on you being tender with the young, compassionate with the aged, sympathetic with the striving and tolerant of the weak and the strong. Because someday in life you will have been all of these." GWC
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