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Debbee Stevens is no longer with us

Started by Susan, February 13, 2009, 09:41:42 AM

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tinkerbell

Oh God no!  :'(  I am in a state of shock right now and don't know what to say...I am sorry.....she had just signed on the other day and talked about how things were getting back to normal for her. 

I am deeply saddened to hear this.  My deepest condolences to her family and loved ones.   Rest in peace Debbee.  All my love always!


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Janet_Girl

I did not know her.  But the passing of a sister saddens us all.

May the Gods accept her into their loving arms and bring her comfort.  And my our love suround and comfort those who she has left behind.

~Bows her head in a moment of silence~  :( :'(

Janet

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V M

Virginia is crying too much to type very well. {{{HUGS}}} to all  :icon_blink: :icon_cry2: :icon_cry:
The main things to remember in life are Love, Kindness, Understanding and Respect - Always make forward progress

Superficial fanny kissing friends are a dime a dozen, a TRUE FRIEND however is PRICELESS


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rhondabythebay

Sorry to hear such sad news. My condolences to all those that knew her.

May she be reborn into her last lifetime.

Hugs,

Rhonda
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funnygrl

My deepest sympathies to all who knew Debbee :'(
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Ashley315

Very sad indeed.   She will be greatly missed.
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Kate Thomas

I am at a loss for words, 

Rest now sweet Deb,
our thoughts are with you

peace
"But who is that on the other side of you?"
T.S. Eliot
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Cindy

Dear Susan, Dennis, and others
I realise this may be difficult in a legal way but I  really don't think so.
Is it possible to run a continous theme, advert? that if you fell depressed it can be treated; most times relatively simply. The drugs are safe, none invasive, non-addicative. Ok they don't work all the time but at least they will warn your treating medics that you are facing Hell, and need support. I realise that you don't want to be open to litigation but emphasing that if you feel depressed, sad, weepy, unstable in a relationship, or not content with yourself. There is help.
Suicide is not a cure for anything.

My condolences for your loss, I did not know her. But I miss her

Love

Cindy James
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vanna

I also did not know Debbee but can feel all of your pain and how much she meant to you all

My hope is she finally found peace and her family are going to be okay in their hours of need.

I hope the rest of you here are going to be okay too.

"hug"
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Chrissty

I also did not know Debbee..

...but I appreciate the work and dedication of everyone who has helped create and develop this site that has had such a profound effect on my life :)

My heart and my thoughts go out to Debbee, and everyone feeling the pain of her loss :icon_bunch:

:icon_hug:

Chrissty
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Bdnewgirl

still in shock
you will be missed my friend



Brandi
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Hazumu

 :'(

As someone else said, it happens 'way too often among our group.

May Debbee rest in peace.

Karen
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Susan

I sent Emelye a copy of the obit. I asked her to add it to the wiki article.
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Suzy

I am heartsick over this.  Words cannot do it justice.  We must not let it happen again!

Kristi
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MaryEllen

I am shocked and saddened to hear of Debbee's passing.

Rest in peace, Debbee.
Live for today. Tomorrow is not promised
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Iddy

I cried so many tears yesterday, I didnt know I had that many. I would stop and think of the many adventures Deb and I had. I thought I would share some of them here. Coming from Australia, she hadnt ever seen snow before she came to visit me. When it got to be Winter, we all loaded up in the car and went for a ride to an elk reserve. There was a ton of snow and she made us stop the car so she could get out and make snow angels. The things we take so for granted....

One of the funnier things that keeps coming to my mind is during our trip to Thailand a few years ago we went for a ride down the floating market...your in a small canue going down these little canals with markets all along the way...there was so much to see...my eyes were everywhere...then I turned to my right where this guy had a cobra out in his hands....to say the least I let out a few choice "f" words and deb about pissed herself laughing. Im terrified of snakes.

That same day we went for a trip to the aligator/elephant place where I got to pet two bengal tigers which I have pictures of. It was a great day.

Debbee and I used to talk a lot about her mood swings. I used to ask her why she even thought about suicide so often...she bluntly said because it all just hurts so much Iddy....she always called me Iddy...I  used to tell her if she ever really did it I would hunt her down and kick her ass...she always laughed and said I would have to catch her first. Well I guess the race is on...Deb I am going to kick your ass...hard.

Yes my tears are still flowing for my friend. They will be for a long time. But I am a practicing Druid and I know Debbee is happy now. My soul knows it. Lets not focus on our loss...lets focus on the good she did for others...I know for a fact there are people out there whose life they owe to Deb...
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Susan

I want to compile a mini-bio for Debbee's wiki article I think you would be a great assistance on it. Up for the task?
Susan Larson
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beth

I am so sorry to hear of this terrible news.

Debbee I hope you are at peace now and the awful pain has subsided.




beth
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RebeccaFog


I feel awful sad having read about this.  I have no words.
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