Think that's just something we ftm guys have to deal with. I wear my pants right on my hips, and they're 38... I'm not so worried at the moment, because I have weight issues I'm trying to resolve, but once they're resolved, I worry a bit about how people will see me. However, I've seen plenty of guys with big hips, most of them skinny, and figure it's just another quirk of the population.
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