THIS: http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/29897277/

Quote from: FairyGirl on March 27, 2009, 08:57:56 AM
hey maybe we should make a perfume that smells like pizza 

Then you have to check this out: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/3797892/Burger-King-releases-meat-scented-cologne.html

Who wouldnt go for someone who smelled like char-broiled beef?

Quote from: Andrew on March 27, 2009, 05:26:04 PM
Then you have to check this out: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/3797892/Burger-King-releases-meat-scented-cologne.html

Who wouldnt go for someone who smelled like char-broiled beef?

how gross.
maybe i'm just biased because i'm a vegetarian / abhor meat, but that's just... odd.

Right now I really just want sex. Thank you, 4 more weeks of testosterone shots.

That song is so much better when Manson sings it.   

Quote from: Julie Wilson on April 02, 2009, 02:48:54 PM
I would suggest that if you really want to find a man who will love you for who you are inside that you get outside, participate and meet people in person, avoid bars and booze.  For most of us life is like the Battlestar Galactica series..  You struggle all your life only to end up dead.  Find the good in every moment and cherish it.

This, this, infinitely this. Definitely avoid bars and booze. A lot of men see booze as an opening.It's strange how open they can be about some rather despicable and predatory sexual habits. But regardless of that...

I've met several very great guys who, if I were into guys (and I may be one day), I'd not hesitate at all in dating. Hey, I talk to three of these guys on a daily basis, and they're straight... and not judgmental at all. So there are guys out there, they just have to get to know you.

I'm still glad to be a lesbian.  Not that women are any less complicating..  Probably more so actually.

I to would avoid bars and the such if I were so inclined to be looking for a guy. (though I don't see that happening)  Not that you couldn't stumble across a decent guy there, but the odds are not with you.  I'd look somewhere else, like..... I dunno, I'm not sure where guys hang out actually.  lol

Re: what do guys really want???

someone who makes us want to be a better man.

Quote from: Ashley315 on April 02, 2009, 11:20:28 PM
I'm still glad to be a lesbian.  Not that women are any less complicating..  Probably more so actually.

I to would avoid bars and the such if I were so inclined to be looking for a guy. (though I don't see that happening)  Not that you couldn't stumble across a decent guy there, but the odds are not with you.  I'd look somewhere else, like..... I dunno, I'm not sure where guys hang out actually.  lol

1) Me too. I hope it doesn't change when I start HRT like I hear it does for some. But I don't think it will.

2) I'm sure you can find some decent quiet types at the library.

Quote from: Nero on April 03, 2009, 02:12:05 AM
Re: what do guys really want???

someone who makes us want to be a better man.

This is beautiful, Nero. So it's not just a line some guys (not you) use? I have heard this from every guy I ever dated (or even almost dated). And none of them wanted sex from me. They seemed to think I was not to be "sullied" or something.

I mentioned to a friend how many times I've been told this, and she laughed at me. She said, "I love you to death, but you've never made me want to be a better person." It made me wonder if it was just a line they used, but I couldn't figure out what purpose it would serve if they weren't trying to get something from me.

Quote from: Ashley315 on April 02, 2009, 03:56:59 PM
That song is so much better when Manson sings it.  

Blates.

I like to think that different men want different things, you know.

I think most men want something similar to what they are.  A person of equal education, income, background and all that, particularly when they are young. 

Quote from: Nero on April 03, 2009, 02:12:05 AM
Re: what do guys really want???

someone who makes us want to be a better man.

Great line And I do believe you when you say it BTW.

Trouble is when most men say that their motivation isn't exactly the right one!

Men tend to be like snowflakes, each snow flake is distinctly different and beautiful but they are all made of ice water and they all want to land on top of you and then evaporate

But I am generalizing and I am talking about men who were born with penises and testicles, whom had the full testosterone levels present during the typical times, etc.

My experience and the experience of other women (typically) is that men don't get better after you have sex with or marry them, they tend to relax and to not try as hard.  The trying harder to be a better man tends to be part of the courtship, not part of the relationship.

Quote from: Julie Wilson on April 03, 2009, 11:55:05 AM
Men tend to be like snowflakes, each snow flake is distinctly different and beautiful but they are all made of ice water and they all want to land on top of you and then evaporate

But I am generalizing and I am talking about men who were born with penises and testicles, whom had the full testosterone levels present during the typical times, etc.

My experience and the experience of other women (typically) is that men don't get better after you have sex with or marry them, they tend to relax and to not try as hard.  The trying harder to be a better man tends to be part of the courtship, not part of the relationship.

My experience too, that's why I stick to women now.

Okay, lets not turn this into man bashing hour please..  There really are some good men out there.

I really hope I don't have to turn in my lesbian pride badge since I just defended men. 

My wants are simple.
I want to be comfortable and content.
That is all.

I think most people want to be comfortable and content, the problem just is that we have different things we need in order to feel comfortable and content.

Asked my brother.
He wants money, sex, drugs(weed), and da beach where he can just have a laid back time. LOL.

I want someone who stimulates my mind and body.

Quote from: Jake Grimm on April 03, 2009, 05:11:58 PM
Asked my brother.
He wants money, sex, drugs(weed), and da beach where he can just have a laid back time. LOL.

that used to be me minus the beach, but i find i want so much more now.