I'm sorry for my hostality here but it just makes me want to jump out of a window whenever I hear the benifits of being a woman! GRRR!

I saw a youtube video about the wonders of being a woman, and the description read, "Being a lady is a wonderful thing! ladies!" I can't go in the woman's restroom, WHERE I BELONG! I have to keep shaving! I can't wear make up to make myself look pretty! I don't have female body parts!

Just, why couldn't i have my ideal body so none of this would be an issue at all?

I kno with sounds like I'm ranting here but there's just no fun in being a woman when you have a male body!

No really, what's so great about a male body! Seriously, I would've done a better job as a female.

That Shania Twain song frustrated me when I was 14.

It's even weirder trying to play along when you're not a woman in a female body...in my head I'm screaming, "I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!!!"

Yeah...we'd all be a lot better off without boxes...

Hey, be all the girl that you can be. But it's no walk in the park. Quit shaving and start plucking unwanted facial hair. (You'll have to deal with ingrown hairs from time to time) Wax your armpits, legs and bikini line. Grow the hair on your head out as long as possible and brush it out every day. Grow your boobs out by the method of your choice. (That will also hurt like hell at times) Exercise everyday to stay trim. When folks begin to believe that you are a woman, you begin to notice some of the benefits. Like guys offering to do things for you and giving you gifts 

Once, when I wanted my mom's boyfriend to look at something on my car, I couldn't figure out why she just wouldn't ask him.  She said something to the extent of, "you have to make them feel like they're needed" and basically insinuated that by letting him notice it on his own (basically pretending to be too dumb to see it) would make him feel more like a man.

I've never been so confused in my life.  Isn't asking for help proof enough that someone is needed?   

Propping the hood up and walking past saying something like "Stupid car! I don't know what's wrong with it." Tends to work pretty well. That way it's his idea to go look at it. Playing the hero is almost always on a guy's mind. It's a good idea to check if the guy knows what he's doing though 

This wasn't an engine issue, thankfully.  I went over some railroad tracks that are very sharp...like ^ and it knocked my muffler loose...it was hanging down and banging the pavement...it was obnoxious.  Eventually, he took some bailing wire and fixed it up...but I just don't know why she didn't just ask him to look at it.  As if a woman knowing there's a problem is a turn off or something...for someone who always told me to be independent and never rely on a man...I was appalled, to say the least.

That is kinda strange. Maybe she just doesn't like to ask for help 

Who knows...   It was a strange moment.  It helped to solidify that I am definitely not female, that's for sure.  It was about flirting and all that, but I just don't get it.

Thankfully, whatever it is, I did not inherit it.  Actually, one of my male friends was shocked when I walked into a bookstore to ask for directions.  He couldn't believe that I was actually going to do it.    When you're lost, you should ask directions.  It'll save you a lot of time and gas.   

I tend to not like asking for help either. I'm not sure why, but it just makes me feel weird 

You've really got two options here-

Go on with this 'why wasn't i born a woman?' stuff and let everything fester

or

Do something about it!

Transition is increasingly accessible- at least in the Western World- and as an adult (which i am assuming you are), you should have very little difficultly making it past the rapidly diminishing set of roadblocks.

Flirting isn't that hard with guys, I done it on a few times in my life (only because I want to see how he would reacted; it wasn't like deep flirting but subconscious flirting; so he would be attracted without being aware). That makes no sense, but here is what I did if I can remember it.

If I wanted to flirt I would act more sexual, and giving hints at it. Psychology proves that if you put an association with yourself then the person will associate it with that. So if I smile at a guy while he is talking he is happier because I smile. If he said something funny I laugh more than I would, even if the joke wasn't funny. I cannot go too far with this since the guy is probably straight. If he is talking about a hot girl, then I would get involve in the conversation (association), and describe a hot girl and keep on talking about it. Giving more hints and arousing him by talking about hot girls. I usually can find the number one topic in a guy, he could be smart, dumb, classy, average, jock, anything and I can make up conversation with him.

The last time I did this I think he was more of 'awe' like admiration to a star, I am not sure that's the right word though. But I know for sure he wasn't thinking I was gay, and stuff, since I act straight and look straight. So it's all in the subconscious. 

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Girls 'dumb themselves' down because they want the man to feel more dominant and stronger (so he in turn likes to protect the girl). I do that subconsciously as well, but not extremely.  More like an airhead feeling, like "Wow that's awesome! That's great. How do you do that. How can you be so smart?". That's not even to guys but to everyone in general.

Sometimes I flirt. Sometimes unintentionally, other times intentionally. Sometimes it's because I'm kinda feeling an attraction. Other times I just want to get something done. Going bra less and putting a little hip sway in your walk has an amazing effect on guys