Everything just seems to be going right for me lately, it's amazing!

Earlier in the week, I scheduled to meet with my RD from college (Resident Director). She's here helping out with orientations and I told her that I'm trans. Of all the responses I expected, calm appraisal certainly wasn't one of them! 

Well I don't know if I made a friend or not, but it certainly does feel good to tell someone and be completely comfortable talking about it.

Good job girl!  Always nice to hear, it should makes things a little easier there for you 

Congratulations, Kara.  It is nice to begin to open to others.  Keep up the good work!

*hugs*
Kate

good for you 

i so envy you i haven't tell anyone, i guess  i am not brave enough

Quote from: gata123pr on June 19, 2009, 06:45:46 PM
good for you 

i so envy you i haven't tell anyone, i guess  i am not brave enough yet.

- K

Quote from: gata123pr on June 19, 2009, 06:45:46 PM
good for you 

i so envy you i haven't tell anyone, i guess  i am not brave enough

It just seems logical, you know? I'm gonna transition and soon I'll look different, I'll act different and all the people who know me will see a change. I think it's better to let them all know up front before the changes happen so they won't be surprised...and hopefully, they'll all be more accepting of it since I gave them fair warning and time to process it internally.

Good Girl
I think that's great. Sorry to sound like Mom, but I old enough to be that. Happy to be another Mom

Cindy

Quote from: Kara on June 19, 2009, 07:35:16 PM
It just seems logical, you know? I'm gonna transition and soon I'll look different, I'll act different and all the people who know me will see a change. I think it's better to let them all know up front before the changes happen so they won't be surprised...and hopefully, they'll all be more accepting of it since I gave them fair warning and time to process it internally.

Good for you, Kara.  I agree completely (although I'm not sure you will act a lot differently ).  I found it best to keep your friends and family informed and, if they are willing, along for the ride.  Open, direct, honest communication makes this difficult process a lot easier.

It sounds like you are on your way.  Wonderful!  Have fun with it.

- Kate

Well I came out to someone else today. I was a little nervous for about two minutes and then I just decided to do it and once it was done, I felt so much better!

I'm almost starting to feel like I could tell anyone.