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The Woman You Thought You'd Be vs. The Woman You Became

Started by fae_reborn, July 13, 2009, 09:45:01 PM

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fae_reborn

#20
July 15, 2009, 10:34:19 AM
Quote from: FairyGirl on July 15, 2009, 12:50:36 AM
I just want the woman I become to be a happy woman, whatever that means.

Amen to that sister.  ;)

Quote from: tekla on July 15, 2009, 07:46:19 AM
The credit reporting system only uses records from the last 7 years - for the most part - but the records, like all records, live on a long, long time.

I have never had a credit card, and I've only taken out three loans in the past - all from the same credit union, and they changed my records.  Haven't really bothered checking my credit records since I probably don't have many considering I'm still pretty young.  Think I should?  Suggestions?
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tekla

#21
July 15, 2009, 10:41:24 AM
I believe that there is some law that allows you one free report per year.  There are three major reporting services.  I will guarantee you it's in your best interest to know.   But check here....

http://www.ftc.gov/bcp/edu/pubs/consumer/credit/cre34.shtm

https://www.annualcreditreport.com/cra/index.jsp


FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Mister

#22
July 15, 2009, 10:58:01 AM
you should absolutely check your credit!  not only to make sure that everything's legit, but also so you can see exactly what ends up on your credit report. 
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fae_reborn

#23
July 15, 2009, 10:59:39 AM
Thanks Tekla, I will look into that.  I see ads all the time for "free credit reporting" but didn't know there was a government site to get it from.
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tekla

#24
July 15, 2009, 12:39:43 PM
Not all 'free things' are really free, I think the one I posted was, but let me know if I'm wrong.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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MaggieB

#25
July 15, 2009, 12:58:48 PM
The one Tekla listed is a service that does offer a free credit report from all three agencies but you get all sorts of offers to decline before they give it to you.  There is one other site FreeCreditReport that I don't use asks for a credit card even for a free report to "Set up an account" right...

Maggie
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DarkLady

#26
July 15, 2009, 01:44:48 PM
I have a very little/ or nothing old documents necessery here. The lure of full stealth is really big.   :)
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heatherrose

#27
July 15, 2009, 02:08:58 PM Last Edit: July 16, 2009, 08:06:30 PM by heatherrose



Pretransition, when I envisioned the red haired beauty which I would, undoubtedly
become, I saw a figure of grace, beautifully attired, perfectly made up, elegant, a vision
of pure femininity. What I found in truth was that if that vision were to ever become a reality,
I would have traded one facade for an other, each one being equally unnatural for me.
I have found the place in the spectrum where I am most comfortable
is towards the center but definitely on the female end.


Manly, man...l...l...l...l...l...l...l...Center...l...l...ME...l...l...l...l...Girlie, girl




YMMV
"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Ms Bev

#28
July 15, 2009, 11:28:22 PM
Quote from: Maggie Kay on July 14, 2009, 12:17:54 PM
Here is my experience.
I'll be 58, next Sunday.  I have been on HRT since 2002. I am mostly pleased with the results. I have a B cup and much of my male fat has moved to places that I like..........

Happy birthday, sis.  I was 58 last November.
Wow.....so many similarities....
I'm sorry about your situation with your s.o.

GET THE BLEPHAROPLASTY.....You will LOVE it.  I used to look like Garfield the cat, such droopy lids, and my levator muscles needed resecting....apparently congenital.  Oherwise, I had no other facial surgery.


Best....
Bev
Post Merge: July 15, 2009, 11:39:06 PM

Quote from: heatherrose on July 15, 2009, 02:08:58 PM



Pretransition, when I envisioned the red haired beauty which I would, undoubtedly
become, I saw a figure of a grace, beautifully attired, perfectly made up, elegant, a vision
of pure femininity.

.....I have found the place in the spectrum where I am most comfortable
is towards the center but definitely on the female end.

I'm glad you found your place of comfort.  Me....?  I thought I would be more in the tomboy part of the spectrum, but Marcy says I am definitely very girly.  She thinks it's sooo funny, because I was such a guy's guy.  And now, I can't walk anything like a guy, or make facial expressions that aren't girly.......sigh.....I'm a victim of estrogen reality.
Life is good    :)


Bev
1.) If you're skating on thin ice, you might as well dance. 
Bev
2.) The more I talk to my married friends, the more I
     appreciate  having a wife.
Marcy
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fae_reborn

#29
July 16, 2009, 12:06:25 PM
Quote from: tekla on July 15, 2009, 12:39:43 PM
Not all 'free things' are really free, I think the one I posted was, but let me know if I'm wrong.

Nope, they are free and it turns out, my old name doesn't even show up on any of them, so looks like I may have the option of going stealth if I wanted!  :D  Lucky me.

Quote from: Maggie Kay on July 15, 2009, 12:58:48 PM
There is one other site FreeCreditReport that I don't use asks for a credit card even for a free report to "Set up an account" right...

The "free" part is usually for a certain trial period, and if you don't cancel before the trial period ends, you're basically consenting to them charging you a monthly fee.  This is according to the legit gov't site that Tekla listed perviously.  Use that one.

Quote from: Miss Bev on July 15, 2009, 11:28:22 PM
I'm a victim of estrogen reality.
Life is good    :)


Bev

Haha, I love that Bev.  I'll have to use that.  ;)
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heatherrose

#30
July 16, 2009, 08:40:05 PM



Quote from: Miss Bev on July 15, 2009, 11:28:22 PM.......sigh.....I'm a victim of estrogen reality.


Ain't in wonderful? For me "The Edge of Rage" has been blunted and it has been
such a freeing experience. If this were as far as I COULD go, knowing that I am
no longer a "Testosterone Puppet" would make the journey thus far, worth it.



"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Tristan

#31
July 16, 2009, 09:56:11 PM
Everyone tells me I'm still the goofy, sprit finger flaunting person I've always been. Lol
Still totally into my body, nursing, and planning to do the whole surrogate thing in the next 5 years or so to have kids when im about 27. (I will be done with medical school by that point or PA school). In my experience you're the same person afterwards as you where before. You just look a little different
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heatherrose

#32
July 16, 2009, 10:17:31 PM



Define "sprit finger flaunting person".

:icon_blink:



"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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Tristan

#34
July 16, 2009, 10:59:39 PM
Very hands on with the signs at the end of cheers like peace sign, rock on sign, the kiss me sign and so on. Cheerleading was a really good outlet for me in Junior high and High school.
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tekla

#35
July 16, 2009, 11:07:04 PM
knowing that I am no longer a "Testosterone Puppet"

Still does not mean you're not a puppet, it's just an argument about who, or what is in control, either way, its not you.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Tristan

#36
July 16, 2009, 11:14:28 PM
oh yeah and Firefly was good. happy to know im not the only one with it on blu ray
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heatherrose

#37
July 16, 2009, 11:25:14 PM



Quote from: tekla on July 16, 2009, 11:07:04 PM
Still does not mean you're not a puppet...


True, but the best place to start cutting strings is from the inside out.


"I have always wanted to have a neighbor just like you,
I've always wanted to live in a neighborhood with you.

So let's make the most of this beautiful day,
Since we're together, we might as well say,
Would you be mine?
Could you be mine?
Won't you be my neighbor?" - Fred Rogers
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tekla

#38
July 16, 2009, 11:45:15 PM
Well as some one who studied with (and under) Margo Rose, a puppet without stings is just kindling.  A little lighter fluid.  A match.  S'mores.
FIGHT APATHY!, or don't...
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Mister

#39
July 16, 2009, 11:54:51 PM
Quote from: tekla on July 16, 2009, 11:45:15 PM
Well as some one who studied with (and under) Margo Rose, a puppet without stings is just kindling.  A little lighter fluid.  A match.  chocolate.  Graham Crackers.  Marshmallow.  S'mores.

all better now.
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