Quote from: finewine on July 18, 2009, 01:07:42 AMBased on your avatar (and your anecdotal retort to her) she was probably seething that you looked so good

That's her in the avatar? I thought that was Paris Hilton!

well it sucks that some people are like that. we see that on the east coast as well. im sorry you had to put up with that girl. true friends are hard to come by

Ive actually had a few TS's go off on me and today a natural female.  The two, TS's were really nice in the beginning, but what they really wanted was to find out things about me, what i do, everything under then sun, then the first one just got really ugly for some reason.  We were talking about  transitioning and  she  became very judgemental and harsh.  Both i believe were jealous and because they had issues with themselves they used me as their step on person.  I dont particularly think im "all that", but some TS's that can not ever become fem can have a tendancy to try to get chummy at first to see if they can gain some kind of knowledge, then when  they cant find answers or you begin to realize whats going on...they blowup on you.  As far as the natural woman, she had a thing for  me as  a male, and i had to tell her i was TG and she  email a very harsh put down.  I hate ppl that cant deal with their own issues and throw them off on innocent  ppl.  I wouldnt  give this person the time to even let it worry  me.

QuoteThe two, TS's were really nice in the beginning, but what they really wanted was to find out things about me, what i do, everything under then sun, then the first one just got really ugly for some reason.

Classic middle school tactic. Girls were always doing this to me. Pretending to be friendly to get ammunition against me. if I didn't already believe it, I'd say yes, you TS women are definitely classic females. 

Yeah, that silly catty stuff can be annoying 

I've seen a lot of transphobia within the trans community myself. There's always going to be some sort of box as to what makes a person trans (including gender queer people, also). You've got HBS people, and a lot of separatists.

Sorry if that sounds a little off topic.

I have a GG who, 'held a torch' for my male personna. When I explained Cindy to her and invited her around for dinner she has been very supportive. Calls me regularly for a chat to see how I am. And invited me to a Xmas party she had, and carefully and tactfully, told her other guests that I was a new and special lady. They made me very comfortable.

Goes in circles, some people are nice, some aren't.

Cindy

I have no desire to wear fake breasts.  I wear a padded bra when I go out without stuffing.  I don't see that as a need to be oneself.  I would love to have real ones someday though.  DyLen

Quote from: tekla on July 17, 2009, 01:30:33 AM
I'm sure this will be edited out. but..  tell her to F off and die.  But be nice about it.

Amen.

Find out where she lives and show up and give her a lesson in bitch slappin.  I mean, she's a geezer, you won't have any problem messing her up!