Just as the title says, my mom is disconnnecting the internet---Because she says that I don't deserve having the internet and that I shouldn't be talking to other people (Including Transgendered people) cause that would not be helping with my "disease."

So I might as well get ready! =[
I love everyone so far...But in a weeks time, I'll likely won't be able to get on for a long time. 

It was nice having the comfort I did have while here, but sadly it will dissappear in a weeks time, I'll try to get on in-between this week a few times but with the problems going on, likely not so--So I might have to treat this as a final good-bye.


So if you want to get a hold of me, just look at the icons for my e-mails and when you add me, I'll go on my phone and talk to people there then...The phone is in my name, so she can't do anything about that.

It's sad what she is doing, but frankly...She'll learn one day and get her just desserts!

I love dessert.

Take care little one.  Your action will be here when you return.


Janet

This generations parents are so...


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Keep your profile on here and stuff. In case I ever have time to talk... I'm leaving for college soon, but yeah.

Quote from: Inphyy on August 17, 2009, 10:11:10 AM
Just as the title says, my mom is disconnnecting the internet---Because she says that I don't deserve having the internet and that I shouldn't be talking to other people (Including Transgendered people) cause that would not be helping with my "disease."

Told ya so!  Well, much better than being *tossed out* lock, stock and barrel! Most public libraries have free internet access, not to mention schools, the only problem I see with that is susans org is on some standard "filtering lists" and it may be blocked by the institution's ISP. You see the website link in my signature? It is wholly owned and administered by me on a proxy server and while certainly not like Susans in the sense that it is strictly private use (cannot be googled searched with closed registrations) PM me if interested in keeping in touch. "cindybc" here is also very active on my site as well and while geared more toward "an older crowd" I also know she has the time and likes to help wherever she can!

She and I bith (among others) have kids ourselves (mine being 9 and 11 ) and there are also other so-so, not as good as Susan's TS websites I could recommend for "the younger crowd" that may or may not be ISP blocked like for example -> search "trueselves" (there's a forum like here and a book).

Seek out a counselor in your school by all means and bonne chance!,

Love Kiera!

Quote from: Kiera on August 17, 2009, 11:42:45 AM
Told ya so!  Well, much better than being *tossed out* lock, stock and barrel! Most public libraries have free internet access, not to mention schools, the only problem I see with that is susans org is on some standard "filtering lists" and it may be blocked by the institution's ISP. You see the website link in my signature? It is wholly owned and administered by me on a proxy server and while certainly not like Susans in the sense that it is strictly private use (cannot be googled searched with closed registrations) PM me if interested in keeping in touch. "cindybc" here is also very active on my site as well and while geared more toward "an older crowd" I also know she has the time and likes to help wherever she can!

She and I bith (among others) have kids ourselves (mine being 9 and 11 ) and there are also other so-so, not as good as Susan's TS websites I could recommend for "the younger crowd" that may or may not be ISP blocked like for example -> search "trueselves" (there's a forum like here and a book).

Seek out a counselor in your school by all means and bonne chance!,

Love Kiera!

Use a ninja browser, or a site that you browse it from... Like I think 420chan used to do that with external links. It was pretty correct.

I fianlly got a chance to get back on, my mom didn't wake me up today on purpose and called the school and said I didn't go. She tried to get me in trouble, so now the Social Security people are coming out soon to check on the house to see if i'm not being abused, straving...etc.

So her natural reaction? Clean up a house that hasn't been cleaned in a month, to make it look good and so she'll look like a perfect parent and pass.
She's also calling everyone she knows and telling about the story...

She's making up lies and basically she got me into counseling in school and the school is basically taking her side.

Quote from: Inphyy on August 17, 2009, 10:11:10 AM
and that I shouldn't be talking to other people (Including Transgendered people) cause that would not be helping with my "disease."

To a certain degree she is not 100% wrong, go to transgender support group.  Meat with other transgeder people and make your self friends within the T and LGTB community.

It is worth it to meat people face 2 face, in real live you'll have to learn to deal with people face 2 face and not only behind your computer so just go and enjoy life.

Quote from: yabby on August 17, 2009, 12:58:29 PM
To a certain degree she is not 100% wrong, go to transgender support group.  Meat with other transgeder people and make your self friends within the T and LGTB community.

It is worth it to meat people face 2 face, in real live you'll have to learn to deal with people face 2 face and not only behind your computer so just go and enjoy life.

She doesn't want me talking to Transgendered people, period. She is disgusted by anyone that doesn't fit the social norms.

Quote from: Inphyy on August 17, 2009, 12:33:07 PM
I fianlly got a chance to get back on, my mom didn't wake me up today on purpose and called the school and said I didn't go. She tried to get me in trouble, so now the Social Security people are coming out soon to check on the house to see if i'm not being abused, straving...etc.

So her natural reaction? Clean up a house that hasn't been cleaned in a month, to make it look good and so she'll look like a perfect parent and pass.
She's also calling everyone she knows and telling about the story...

She's making up lies and basically she got me into counseling in school and the school is basically taking her side.

I hate school councillors... D: Hate them.

But yeah, be strong with them. Do not let them re-repress everything.


Why do all of the cooler people have to have, by default, Bat$h17s insane parents and live too far away... ?

Quote from: Kara-Xen on August 17, 2009, 01:17:19 PM
I hate school councillors... D: Hate them.

But yeah, be strong with them. Do not let them re-repress everything.


Why do all of the cooler people have to have, by default, Bat$h17s insane parents and live too far away... ?

I guess that's life *sigh*
And of-course not understanding Transgendered people, they are going to have bias against me! T_T

If there's a camera in the phone you can always document the evidence.
And I wouldn't hesitate to call them aside (the social service people) and talk to them in person and try to calmly tell them how it's been if I were you.
You have the best chance at being taken seriously and treated like you're being honest if you can explain your case in as calm and do the point manner as possible. Avoid overstating and understating.

Quote from: Inphyy on August 17, 2009, 01:14:42 PM
She doesn't want me talking to Transgendered people, period. She is disgusted by anyone that doesn't fit the social norms.

Sorry to hear this, then it is totally difficult. hang on there, and try to make contacts friends with the community if possible.  don't way too long to call a lgtb center specially if social security is visiting your house.

Quote from: Miniar on August 17, 2009, 01:21:17 PM
If there's a camera in the phone you can always document the evidence.
And I wouldn't hesitate to call them aside (the social service people) and talk to them in person and try to calmly tell them how it's been if I were you.
You have the best chance at being taken seriously and treated like you're being honest if you can explain your case in as calm and do the point manner as possible. Avoid overstating and understating.

It's sad though, that I have to go this low with my mom, all because she can't accept a Transgendered child.

Quote from: Inphyy on August 17, 2009, 01:19:31 PM
I guess that's life *sigh*
And of-course not understanding Transgendered people, they are going to have bias against me! T_T

No, what I'm saying is don't friggin listen to them. The more people are going to be unsupportive and horrible to you like this, the more you may be beaten back into your head unknowingly. Make sure you stay very headstrong so you stay who you are... I can see that you do that a lot more naturally than a lot of people. Just stay aware of who you are, and don't let them control you without your knowing. Its hard... But you gotta try with that. I guess thats the only advice I have now... Or cents or whatever.

Quote from: Kara-Xen on August 17, 2009, 01:24:56 PM
No, what I'm saying is don't friggin listen to them. The more people are going to be unsupportive and horrible to you like this, the more you may be beaten back into your head unknowingly. Make sure you stay very headstrong so you stay who you are... I can see that you do that a lot more naturally than a lot of people. Just stay aware of who you are, and don't let them control you without your knowing. Its hard... But you gotta try with that. I guess thats the only advice I have now... Or cents or whatever.

But if I don't listen to them and give them a chance, they msay I am not applying myself or giving it a chance and then I can get in trouble both by the school and the law. <>_<>

Let them know your mother prevented from going to school on both on Friday on Monday, if i am not wrong school is obligatory till 18?

Quote from: Inphyy on August 17, 2009, 01:26:54 PM
But if I don't listen to them and give them a chance, they msay I am not applying myself or giving it a chance and then I can get in trouble both by the school and the law. <>_<>

I know... But I'm not saying how you dress and stuff... I know that that is horrendous, and you should definitely dress however the hell you want usually...
But you might have to adapt to get good grades and be neutral with the school. What I mean to say is never adapt the way you think and act and feel. The other stuff is horrible, but if you ultimately want to get out of that place (And move to another freaking state if you get a good enough scholarship... But you'd have to really work for that), humoring these apemen might be good in the long run for getting OUT to college. But what I'm saying is just don't lose yourself... It will be extremely hard to get it back. I struggle with that a lot because I have almost a construct persona to deal with other people. I've had my personality confuse me on SO many occasions and it still does. You need to try your best to stay yourself, clothes and compromise in order to leave, or not. Thats all I meant really. Don't lose yourself. The masks fuse to your skin eventually and you rip one off after another until you realize your face isn't under the last mask peeled off...

You're younger than me, and I never had anyone who told me stuff liek this back then... I was too scared to even have this site on my history, ever. So yeah. You are strong, just get through this and go to art school/college, as yourself.

Quote from: yabby on August 17, 2009, 01:49:13 PM
Let them know your mother prevented from going to school on both on Friday on Monday, if i am not wrong school is obligatory till 18?

People are allowed to drop-out if they want to and by premission from the parent, they can.

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Quote from: Kara-Xen on August 17, 2009, 01:50:49 PM
I know... But I'm not saying how you dress and stuff... I know that that is horrendous, and you should definitely dress however the hell you want usually...
But you might have to adapt to get good grades and be neutral with the school. What I mean to say is never adapt the way you think and act and feel. The other stuff is horrible, but if you ultimately want to get out of that place (And move to another freaking state if you get a good enough scholarship... But you'd have to really work for that), humoring these apemen might be good in the long run for getting OUT to college. But what I'm saying is just don't lose yourself... It will be extremely hard to get it back. I struggle with that a lot because I have almost a construct persona to deal with other people. I've had my personality confuse me on SO many occasions and it still does. You need to try your best to stay yourself, clothes and compromise in order to leave, or not. Thats all I meant really. Don't lose yourself. The masks fuse to your skin eventually and you rip one off after another until you realize your face isn't under the last mask peeled off...

You're younger than me, and I never had anyone who told me stuff liek this back then... I was too scared to even have this site on my history, ever. So yeah. You are strong, just get through this and go to art school/college, as yourself.

The school just called...Now mom is talking to them...They are trying to get resources about me and etc.

Quote from: Inphyy on August 17, 2009, 02:00:52 PM
People are allowed to drop-out if they want to and by premission from the parent, they can.

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The school just called...Now mom is talking to them...They are trying to get resources about me and etc.

Ah... And by resources they mean lobotomy tools. Gotcha. *hug