Welcome to Susan's, Carina.
I'm glad for you that things are moving along well for you. It is good to have a plan and be working on it.
For me, the first step was to come out to professional helpers - doctor, counselor, minister - and the nearby LGBT people. It gave me the courage to start coming out to my straight friends.
If Cali is California, I would think the state government would support your transition at the workplace. (But I don't live in California any more and don't work for a state government, so what do I know.

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Anyway, I'm glad you're here. Welcome. Jump in and let us know what you think and how you feel.

- Kate