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GRR....Serperating the sexes!

Started by wannalivethetruth, October 14, 2009, 05:18:07 PM

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Did you hate(do you hate)to be serperated from the girls (mtf)? from guys (ftm)

Yes
17 (70.8%)
It wouldn't bother me that much
3 (12.5%)
No
1 (4.2%)
Slightly
3 (12.5%)

Total Members Voted: 11

wannalivethetruth

Well, i always hated when people seperate me into the guy section! Just doesn't feel right! Ohhh.. let me not forget, they would wan't me to carry something for someone! GRR!

I think school seperates the sexes a lot. Therfore it brings awkwardness.

"Come on class, boys on this side, girls on that side!"

I just would like to throw my pencil at the teacher everytime they say something like that!  >:-)

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Janet_Girl

I sometimes wander into the  boys section and it is like walking into my little brothers room and and catching him............... never mind.

I just stay clear when it sounds like WTF.


Janet
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Calistine

It depends. Im very embarrased to go into the girls locker room for gym but if its for activities I dont care so much..unless Im pointed out as the butch looking girl :/.
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Mr. Fox

#3
It's irritating becuase it generally outs me as a "girl," but I would also hate it even I was being separated from the girls; I just don't see the point of separatations, and I'm either classed as female or taken away from my friends :(
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Calistine

Quote from: Mr. Fox on October 15, 2009, 02:21:41 PM
It's irritating becuase it generally outs me as a "girl," but I would also hate it even I was being separated from the girls; I just don't see the point of separatations, and I'm either classed as female or takne away from my friends :(
Thats what I meant to say thank you :P
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Dante

This bothers the crap out of me! They do this at school a ton. I'm so tired of it, but I can't do anything about it. It makes me so mad, I want to throw my binder (or any heavy object the happens to be nearby >:-) ) at my teacher! Another annoying thing that teachers do is call you "lady" all the time. I almost yelled at my PE teacher for that once, but my friend stopped me. And I'll stop ranting now.





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perfectisolation

The unfortunate thing is that the separation all comes down to what hoo hoos and ha has you have. If girls and guys were mixed in a gym locker room, the guys would be pervs and the girls would scream rape.

Sadly public unisex bathrooms/lockerrooms/changingrooms etc, would just bring up that problem..... sigh.

The majority rules..
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Silver

Yep. I'm still in HS, and a couple years back I had a P.E. class. Sucked to be grouped with the girls because I have only male friends. Girls make me uncomfortable.

Also train for a sport. . . irritating, during workouts I get "Alright, now you have to do six sets of fifteen reps." And I say alright, and I get started. Then the coach says "Oh no, girls do five reps per set." Irritating because it's not like I can't do the guys' work out, it's not that strenuous. So I do the guys' workout anyway.

Sexual segregation mostly irritates me because I'm being segregated to the wrong side though. If I could transition now, or were a biomale with no gender identity abnormalities I probably wouldn't care.
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noeleena

Hi...
This will depend on the time & place & age .
  For me years ago age 12  i walked in to the girls bathing sheds . never even gave it a thought . i would have got undressed . then off out with the others .boys .  oh they werent behind me so turned around looking for them . oh wrong shed.  well building ,,,,,i did not like getting undressed in front of boys let alone men no way .   to day just the same as a woman ....its no way ...the change  for me is.    i m a woman . & i dont like men looking at me  in the way they do . some any way . ...
In front of other women undressed . or loos . what ever . i am at home .    just not in mens commony . a prude yea i am .... & that s not because i live now as a woman . i all ways was / am .
School . yeap what has changed .......nothing in  45 years ....
...noeleena...
Hi. from New Zealand, Im a woman of difference & intersex who is living life to the full.   we have 3 grown up kids and 11 grand kid's 6 boy's & 5 girl's,
Jos and i are still friends and  is very happy with her new life with someone.
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Inphyy

What I disliked at Freshmen and Sophomore year was the fact in P.E. every year, Is the very first day they make the girls and the boys sit in separate areas to get their locks to their lockers. So that means right at the start of the year you're outed!

Also anytime we did mile runs or anything, the girls got to go first because, "Girls are much weaker then men and should get a head start", So basically I had to wait around with the guys while the girls got 2 minutes to run before "us".

Junior year -- This year though!!! A lot more teachers are being more kind to me...For example, last week my first period English Teacher made a fun battle between the sexes to see which sex is smarter about the subject and being awkward as to where to sit, I came up to the teacher and she was like, "Oh! Sit where you want, you dress, you talk, you sound and you act like a girl...So sit with the girls...But if you want to sit with the boys!"

So it was so cool to see that my teacher was kind to let me be open to sit on either side!

My third period teacher always refers to me as an she and is the only male teacher I had that actually has and knows that I am the way I am.

My Math Teacher, History Teacher and French Teacher (Males), all refer to me as an him/sir, Etc. Etc.; Despite, dressing, sounding, acting and looking like a girl--It's so ignorant to see teachers call you terms that they know that you don't like or don't want to fit into! Seriously, If I am wearing a dress, wearing make-up, have long hair, a feminine figure and talk like a girl and everything. Why in the world would you call me male terms -- Give me the benefit of being who I want to be.

Judgment day is everyday! The judges we encounter may not be standing on clouds, but their heads are sure in them and surely like anyone else, I hate to be judged.
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DarkLady

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Jay



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Dante

I agree with SilverFang, on multiple things. 1; when PE teachers make different goals for the sexes. My PE teachers made cards with seperate sides for the boys and girls for our rowing unit, but they screwed it up, so both sides had the girl's goals. I asked him angrily why they had tried to make seperate ones in the first place, and he said (in nicer terms) that boys were stronger than girls, and needed higher goals. I was glaring at him later, so he leaned over and told me not to be mad at him for the screw up because it wasn't his fault, and I would have told him why I was mad, but the whole class had been watching. Although, I did have fun scribbling angrily over the large word 'girl' at the top of my paper >:-). But anyway, I got sidetracked with my stupid story.

The second thing I agree with SilverFang about is that I probably wouldn't care if I was a "normal" guy. I might even enjoy the competition.





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Mr. Fox

I always do find the differences sexist (we don't separate in our gym classes, but we did in junior high for two teams in kickball), but actually handy for me because I am really pathetic; I don't even meet the lower standards, hee hee hee!.

Today's separation of joy: boys and girls for hotel rooms during the marching band trip.  Yeah, I'm probably going to end up being an honorary woman.  Sucks.
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Kim_R

Ooh; i experienced this soo much. It made me sneak away from school during gym. Activities like dancing, where they separate the boys from the girls and they have to study different dancing moves made me go crazy. I just didn't want to do what the boys did since I didn't want to be associated with the boys.
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childofwinter

Quote from: The Unforgiven on October 20, 2009, 01:32:32 AM
I agree with SilverFang, on multiple things. 1; when PE teachers make different goals for the sexes. My PE teachers made cards with seperate sides for the boys and girls for our rowing unit, but they screwed it up, so both sides had the girl's goals. I asked him angrily why they had tried to make seperate ones in the first place, and he said (in nicer terms) that boys were stronger than girls, and needed higher goals. I was glaring at him later, so he leaned over and told me not to be mad at him for the screw up because it wasn't his fault, and I would have told him why I was mad, but the whole class had been watching. Although, I did have fun scribbling angrily over the large word 'girl' at the top of my paper >:-). But anyway, I got sidetracked with my stupid story.

The second thing I agree with SilverFang about is that I probably wouldn't care if I was a "normal" guy. I might even enjoy the competition.

I do a lot of rowing on the rowing machines at the gym and there's plenty of women who can outrow me easily. The only real difference is that men tend to have larger lungs (which doesn't make them faster, just allows them to go for longer amounts of time), although I assume women can easily get bigger lungs through exercise.

Personally, I don't believe in any separation of the sexes. Due to there being far more variation between people of the same sex than between sexes, such segregation is illogical and is just as discriminatory as the segregation of black and white people in the US, or apartheid in South Africa.
I have no concrete idea of my gender identity, but I believe I am an Androgyne.
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shanetastic

in high school it didn't really bother me, I really didn't do PE anyways.  I took it for pass / no pass and never went to it.  I was more concerned with leaving school than going to classes at that time.  And for when I did manage to go, I just hung out and talked with people. . . it's one big joke really :p 

Luckily in college it's a little different now haha.  I live with three girls too so I don't worry about these things too often anymore. 
trying to live life one day at a time
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wannalivethetruth

P.E normally is like a boy and girl class. They separate us, and we don't participate together.

I hate it :(
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Dante

Quote from: Kim_R on October 21, 2009, 02:18:27 PM
Ooh; i experienced this soo much. It made me sneak away from school during gym. Activities like dancing, where they separate the boys from the girls and they have to study different dancing moves made me go crazy. I just didn't want to do what the boys did since I didn't want to be associated with the boys.

Don't even get me started on the junior high PE dancing unit.  >:(





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