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Abortion. Pro Life or Pro Choice TS Men and Woman only please.

Started by Jordan, December 12, 2009, 04:43:22 AM

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Asfsd4214

Quote from: The None Blonde on December 20, 2009, 07:05:32 AM
If you chose to read my post, not what you wanted to see... you'd see I said the FINALY say should rest with the effected body... not just them, but surely those it effects have the right to have a say... its our bodies, our right.

As for laura, well, you say when a child is a person? same thing no?

You need to clarify embryo, foetus, and child... this is murky, and not helping.

Actually your exact words were "Sure, others can have a view point, but is it that relvant at the end of the day?" in reference to discussing abortion on this topic.

I took that concept to its logical extreme, by saying it's no more relevant to anyone infertile, then that it's no more reliant to anyone not currently pregnant. Because the most difference there could be between those people is a question of mentality, and very minor, rather than any kind of experience.

"This debate, nomatter what anyone say, should rest with those it effects. End of story...."

Which says to me, you think that people should not be posting (although they can but should be ignored if they do) unless they are actually, currently able to get pregnant.
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Tammy Hope

Quote from: The None Blonde on December 20, 2009, 07:05:32 AM
If you chose to read my post, not what you wanted to see... you'd see I said the FINALY say should rest with the effected body... not just them, but surely those it effects have the right to have a say... its our bodies, our right.

As for laura, well, you say when a child is a person? same thing no?

You need to clarify embryo, foetus, and child... this is murky, and not helping.

Which is the very conundrum that keeps us all form agreeing on an obvious solution.

In the view of a person who believes it is a child, abortion - except in obvious self defense - is murder.

That's why it's very difficult to get such people to consider pro-choice arguments.

The thing is, all but the hard core political activist pro-choicer will concede that sometime in the late term the fetus should be considered a child - at the least when it gets to the point where it can survive outside the mother's womb if delivered pre-maturely.

so, for us normal people who are not all-or-nothing political activists, whether we are pro-life or pro-choice or something in between, we SHOULD all be able to agree that after 23,24 weeks - lets say the third trimester (26 weeks) for a verbal shorthand - we are speaking of a "child" just as much as we are speaking of a fetus.

How much further back than that one goes is a matter of disagreement.

for me, just to clarify my future remarks, I prefer quarters over trimesters (which is - both are -  a wholly arbitrary scale which has no basis in biology)

10 weeks, 20 weeks, 30 weeks

It has been determined that there is measurable higher brain function in the fetus by 10 weeks...some suggest as early as eight weeks.

That, in my opinion, is the measure of "person" and not simply fetus. After 10 weeks, we are speaking of a fetus but also of a child, in my opinion and when I refer to that being I will commonly call it a child.

Before that brain activity it is a fetus (far enough back an embryo) and I, for one, am willing to accept broad latitude for the mother in terminating the pregnancy.

Past 10 weeks, I would only accept a termination in extraordinary circumstances which were court approved.

Past 20 weeks, only in defense of the mothers life, or to prevent permenant physical disability. At 20 weeks or shortly thereafter, a child is viable outside the mothers womb.

Past 30 weeks, I would make abortion for any reason other than those two a criminal offense, punishable at least as manslaughter. I concede that 20 weeks is an arbitrary distinction but I'm following the 10-week pattern. It's no more arbitrary than "trimesters"

So, in short, when I say "child" I refer to a being with brain function which MAY indicate self-awareness and definitely indicates the ability to feel pain.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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Alyssa M.

Should we let white racists decide whether black people should have civil rights? Should we let men decide whether women can vote and hold public office?

No, we should not. Those are what we in the United States call "unalienable rights." Nevertheless, that's exactly what we did: people in power denied those rights in order to maintain their power, until they finally deigned to respect them.

Such is the case with all systems of government. That's why we unjustly let a bunch of homophobes decide whether gay people can marry (and yes, that affects trans people too). That's why we let people who can't get pregnant decide whether they can have access to abortion. (Or, from anti-abortion point of view I disagree with, why we let people whose life will never be threatened by abortion decide whether we can destroy fetuses.) That called government. It is certainly not the same as justice.
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.

   - Anatole France
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Asfsd4214

What makes it SO hard talking to pro-choicers, is that so many of them just don't seem to get that the pro-lifer's see this as TWO people being affected by abortion. Not one, two.

Which makes it not a civil liberties issue to us.

You do not have the right to murder anyone else? And if you see abortion as murder, then it's no different an infringement on civil liberties as any other law against murder.

These arguments of "whites persecuted blacks" "men persecuted women" are perfectly valid justifications from the pro-choice viewpoint where there's only one person being effected by an abortion, the person undergoing it. But they are completely irrelivant to someone who see's abortion as one person destroying another. Please try to understand that.
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Alyssa M.

Well, good. You've just made the point I was making from the start.

Did you read my entire post? Then you ought to have noticed where I mentioned that the same argument is used by pro-lifers: I've heard plenty of pro-lifers talk about civil liferties of fetuses. Notice the part in boldface:

Quote from: Alyssa M. on December 20, 2009, 02:41:02 PM...That's why we let people who can't get pregnant decide whether they can have access to abortion. (Or, from anti-abortion point of view I disagree with, why we let people whose life will never be threatened by abortion decide whether we can destroy fetuses.) That called government. It is certainly not the same as justice.

I understand your point of view perfectly, and did from the start. I simply disagree with your definition of personhood.

I understand that some people see me as a murderer for eating meat. I disagree with their definition of personhood too.
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.

   - Anatole France
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Asfsd4214

Quote from: Alyssa M. on December 20, 2009, 07:26:32 PM
Well, good. You've just made the point I was making from the start.

Did you read my entire post? Then you ought to have noticed where I mentioned that the same argument is used by pro-lifers: I've heard plenty of pro-lifers talk about civil liferties of fetuses. Notice the part in boldface:

I understand your point of view perfectly, and did from the start. I simply disagree with your definition of personhood.

I understand that some people see me as a murderer for eating meat. I disagree with their definition of personhood too.

QuoteOr, from anti-abortion point of view I disagree with, why we let people whose life will never be threatened by abortion decide whether we can destroy fetuses.

Isn't that like saying we can never let white people talk about discrimination against black people? Or men stick up for womens rights?

My life WAS directly threatened by abortion, does that count enough to give me a say?  ::)
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Dennis

So was mine. If it had been available, I would have been aborted. I wasn't. I'm still pro-choice. I do enough child protection work and young offender work that I know what a miserable life the unwanted have. And how they reflect that misery outwards on others. Some do good. I did. But my parents stepped up to the plate, even though I was unwanted, and gave me the best life they could. Most don't.

I would put a puppy down that didn't have a hope. I have euthanized dogs who are in such pain that another minute in agony is cruelty. I wasn't allowed to make that choice for my father, even though he begged. Killing is not always murder. Sometimes it's compassion. You can look at the world in black and white, but you're forcing the shades of grey into one category or another.

I think abortion is a morally wrong choice for a whole human being to make. I think every child should be given a chance, but I know that not everyone who is pregnant is a whole human being or capable, and it's not just a case of giving a child up for adoption, even if they would, and it's not that easy. You're talking about kids neurologically damaged by drug use, alcohol use, in utero. Women who can't feed themselves, let alone a child. Men who are nothing but sperm donors, and that imperfectly. If the world was perfect, then people wouldn't choose abortion. The world's not. And people aren't. I do think more people make the choice to abort than should. But I would not be in favour of legislating them into giving birth.

I will never think it is right to make morals into laws.

Dennis
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Alyssa M.

Ashley, I think I was pretty clear, and moreover my point was rather innocuous and apolitical if one were to read carefully and without preconceptions. I was not arguing in support of or againse either side of this debate, though I did state which side I'm on. So I won't try to explain it again. If you didn't see that it was innocuous and apolitical, then you read it wrong. The fault lies either with your reading comprehension or my ability to communicate clearly. I suspect it's the former. But if it's the latter, tough, I'm done. I gave it my best shot, and I don't care any more.

To answer your questions:

1) No, and no.

2) Not in the sense I was talking about, unless you plan to enter a second time into your mother's womb to be born.
All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter another.

   - Anatole France
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Tammy Hope

QuoteI will never think it is right to make morals into laws.

You do realize just how many of our laws are legislated morals don't you?

Who says murder is wrong? or rape? or theft?

Some moral code, that's who.
Disclaimer: due to serious injury, most of my posts are made via Dragon Dictation which sometimes butchers grammar and mis-hears my words. I'm also too lazy to closely proof-read which means some of my comments will seem strange.


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Hannah

How long are you people gonna beat this dead horse?




Back and forth, back and forth, lots of talking and anybody who was listening stopped 6 pages ago. I'm genuinely surprised the masturbation thread was the one that got locked first.
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Asfsd4214

Quote from: Dennis on December 21, 2009, 12:51:14 AM
So was mine. If it had been available, I would have been aborted. I wasn't. I'm still pro-choice. I do enough child protection work and young offender work that I know what a miserable life the unwanted have. And how they reflect that misery outwards on others. Some do good. I did. But my parents stepped up to the plate, even though I was unwanted, and gave me the best life they could. Most don't.

I would put a puppy down that didn't have a hope. I have euthanized dogs who are in such pain that another minute in agony is cruelty. I wasn't allowed to make that choice for my father, even though he begged. Killing is not always murder. Sometimes it's compassion. You can look at the world in black and white, but you're forcing the shades of grey into one category or another.

I think abortion is a morally wrong choice for a whole human being to make. I think every child should be given a chance, but I know that not everyone who is pregnant is a whole human being or capable, and it's not just a case of giving a child up for adoption, even if they would, and it's not that easy. You're talking about kids neurologically damaged by drug use, alcohol use, in utero. Women who can't feed themselves, let alone a child. Men who are nothing but sperm donors, and that imperfectly. If the world was perfect, then people wouldn't choose abortion. The world's not. And people aren't. I do think more people make the choice to abort than should. But I would not be in favour of legislating them into giving birth.

I will never think it is right to make morals into laws.

Dennis

The laws against murder are nothing but morals made into laws.

I'm not against euthanasia, I had to put my dog of 15 years down less than 3 weeks ago. And if I were in so much pain that I didn't want to live anymore, I would want the right to die too.

But we're not talking about euthanasia, and I don't think you can justify abortion as euthanasia on grounds that the childs life might be horrible. Yes, it might be, but it shouldn't up to us to decide to not even give them the chance at life because of how good or bad it may be.

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SusanKG

Becca,

Because whacking on the dead ones protect the living ones from attack. Now that's a pro-life position everyone can support, right?...right? ....right?....Oh the heck with it, on with the show!

The masturbation thread got locked??? What was going on there I missed?

SusanKG
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Miniar

Quote from: Ashley4214 on December 20, 2009, 04:13:12 PM
What makes it SO hard talking to pro-choicers, is that so many of them just don't seem to get that the pro-lifer's see this as TWO people being affected by abortion. Not one, two.

Actually, you've been given a lot of arguments from an "assuming we're talking two people here".

It's not murder if a woman kills her rapist, it's self defense.
If someone enters a woman's body, against her will, drains it of resources and causes permanent damage to it, all against her will, it doesn't matter if that someone doesn't have the mental capacity to comprehend his or her actions. It doesn't matter if it's a fetus and thus incapable of being guilty. She still has the right to defend herself against the invader.
It's still self defense.

If a tiger mauls a human being, the tiger gets shot and killed, even if the tiger is only acting within it's nature and thus not truly guilty of anything. It's Still self defense.
(And other similes like that can be spouted in rapid succession.)

Threat and force and harm against another being is why there's self defense, not "guilt".



"Everyone who has ever built anywhere a new heaven first found the power thereto in his own hell" - Nietzsche
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Silver

Quote from: SusanKG on December 22, 2009, 12:18:19 AM
Becca,

Because whacking on the dead ones protect the living ones from attack. Now that's a pro-life position everyone can support, right?...right? ....right?....Oh the heck with it, on with the show!

The masturbation thread got locked??? What was going on there I missed?

SusanKG

Well arguing on this site sure hasn't saved any babies. . .
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Hannah

I had just been waiting for a chance to use that funny-bunny, I'm not really emotionally invested in the discussion either way. Conversations like this are good for mental weight lifting but you can only discuss it for so long before you have to shut up and put your money where your mouth is, so I'll be looking for a bunch of bickering trannies outside the next serious rally.

It's easy here in the northwest to armchair general these things because our politicians pretty much have their heads out of their asses. If we had a bunch of bible thumping rednecks down at the clinic shouting people down though you can bet I'd be down there with the rest of the hippys running them off.
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ICatchDinosaurs

Though I think abortion is..well..uh...bad?
Yeah.
That's basically the only way I know how to put it. bad.
I still am pro-choice, as I don't know their situation and why they are seeking an abortion.
I also don't think it's right for me to tell other people what to do.
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Byren

I think it depends on the person/situation. I do not, however, think it should be outlawed altogether, but merely controlled.

Example situations:
Stupid people: sorry babe, no free-out ticket for you (just be sure child services keeps a watch on 'em)
Victimed people: Yes, let 'em
Medical complications: Yes, let 'em
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Peter Nivio Zarlenga
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Wolf Man

Really? I think anyone should have the right to an abortion. No matter their situation.It's a right that they should have. However, in the US, I believe that the constitution should be thrown out on this (upcoming) note so that citizenship has to be earned through a comprehensive test. That's just me.

But even if there are stupid people in the world, if they want an abortion, they'll get an abortion. Legal or illegal, it's going to happen. Now, would you rather have a high percentage of female death due to abortions gone wrong or would you rather keep it legal? I'm going to hope you keep it legal, but there are people in the world who are so stuck on their beliefs and say "Well, it was your own damn fault." or "That's God's way of punishing you for your sin."

By the way, however alive a fetus is in the womb, it is still a fetus. Not a child, kid, human necessarily, but a fetus. It is essentially a parasite in the way that it acts in the womb. I'm not saying anything other than what is really just logical. Not out and breathing on your own? Not a baby. (I'm sorry incubator baby.)
I'll be there someday, I can go the distance
I will find my way, If I can be strong
I know every mile, Will be worth my while

When I go the distance, I'll be right where I belong
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LordKAT

A caterpillar is still a butterfly, just in an earlier state of being. A fetus is still human, just in an earlier state of being.


I already know people who use abortion as a type of birth control. That is just wrong. If you don't want a baby, alter your behavior to prevent it. Birth control, abstinence, but not abortion.
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Nathan.

I think anyone should be able to have an abortion, I don't care if they sleep around or are rape victims they should both be able to chose what to do with their uterus.
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