When i wear a frog bra, a vest, and i don't speak (hard for me i can assure you lmao) then i get stared at HARD before people (mainly employees of various stores who approach for the "how can i help you" speech) decide to use no labels.
Then i speak and it's usually "ma'am" or "miss"

People walking by occasionally stare or look twice. I passed better in the fifth grade than i do now lmao - i remember running around with friends and hearing people say "is that a guy or a girl?!" and i thought it was cool as hell.
*sigh*
Still waiting for my referrals.....
I'm actually surprised my mother hasn't said anything yet - when i've got a vest or baggy sweater on over the Frog i look flat. She usually can't keep her mouth shut about stuff like that (she comments "oh, that looks too small around your chest honey" when i wear too tight shirts to bed....)