I really like this hairstyle
http://blog.roodo.com/wallace_yang/74b71e02.jpg

So my hair is about 2.5 inches long as of now

But how long would it take me on average to see hair of that length before I could get it?
2010 winter time, or even later?

And is it a kind of style that is strictly female?

That is cute.  And I think you still could 'boi' it up if need be.


Janet

It was either that or something that resembles this (Brad Pitt one)

http://i.dailymail.co.uk/i/pix/2008/06/12/article-1026020-006A707A00000258-300_468x488.jpg
http://i.rollingstone.com/assets/rs/11/3861/images/35731_lg.jpg
http://www.independent.co.uk/multimedia/archive/00126/1997_126422s.jpg

but I am pretty sure that would look "flaming" on me, well maybe not, but it just seems really risky for the average person... since that hairstyle is really feminine like a Spice Girl look.

That's kinda like my hair but mines too curly

If your hair is straight, (one of my favorites) This looks really hot, and can go either way: http://www.haircutshairstyles.com/pictures/classicshortcrop5.jpg