If anyone hasn't heard of, postsecret.blogspot.com, this is a great site.  People mail in art postcards with their deepest secrets, which they've never told anyone.  Then they get posted anonymously on the site.

What I didn't know is there is a forum associated with it where people discuss the secrets.  I never saw the postcard, but I ran across a thread called, postsecretcommunity.com/chat/viewtopic.php?t=291509&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0 in which a bunch of people talk about being misgendered.  Some seem to embrace it, while others do anything they can do avoid it.  I thought it might be an interesting read for some people here.

I once did "sir'd" a woman. In truth, I saw a poster, and I said something along the lines of, "oh wow, he looks pretty ripped!" Turns out, it was [Name Removed], she would not have been pleased. I was embarrassed at having called her 'him'.

Wow, I completely messed up that link.  Copy and paste, maybe?

postsecretcommunity.com/chat/viewtopic.php?t=291509&postdays=0&postorder=asc&start=0