Hi Tiffany, and welcome to Susan's.
I know what you're saying about a confusing life. Susan's is the best place I've found for real information and good discussion about all aspects of this confusion.
As for offending anyone, about your religious or any other beliefs, please don't apologize. While I may not share them, no one has any right to be offended by your beliefs. As far as I'm concerned the only offence here is an attitude of "that's they way it is, so shut up and just listen!" And truthfully you will rarely get that here, and if you do get it, feel free to get offended yourself. You will not be alone. Again, welcome.
Susan Kay