I am new to the site, and am planning on changing into a male. I have wanted to be a man since I was 13.  I am actually saving up money and stuff to get to do it. If anybody has any advice or anything, plz feel free to help. I am a little nervous, because I have not told to many people about it. As a matter of fact, my family doesn't know because they would shun the thought, but not the action, if it makes sense.

Hi

I don't know your exact situation but normally your first step is to find a gender therapist. That person can answer questions and write letters for hormones and/or surgeries. They will also help you with dealing with the reast of the world and sorting your own thoughts out.

There are other options and many degrees of transitioning. Which is best for you is for you to figure out.

Welcome to Susan's. 

There's a lot of good information and good people here.  Each of our stories is unique but we have a lot in common.  Settle in, pull up a keyboard, and explore.

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As LordKAT said, transition is not an all-or-nothing proposition - there are many stops along the way.  And as he said, it is usually very helpful to have someone you can talk to who is non-judgemental and trained to listen to what you are saying and not saying - a therapist. 

You might also look for support groups in your area.  Many places have them.  Some are helpful and some aren't, but it can be really useful to listen to others' experiences.

Happy exploring and good luck.

- Kate

Hi 

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Hugs and Love,
Janet

thank you all, and I am looking forward to getting some more info, and help. I will be taking you advice to the letter. thanx again.