Oh, yeah, I still eat a wide variety of foods, with some beans and multigrains every day, and I don't lift if I'm too sore. My bf used to be really into lifting so he's helped me a lot and set up my plan with me and taught me proper form and such. He said I could probably expect to plateau at about 3 months and stop seeing much more growth.
I started out curling 10 lbs and I'm up to 20, and for the shoulders I actually need to go buy more weights cuz the biggest I have is 25 and I can do 3 sets on that already. Oddly my left bicep seems just a little stronger than my right (I'm right-handed) but the left tricep is weaker, probably from when I was working a fulltime day job and having wrist problems so I'd do certain things only with one arm or the other. I've been trying to balance them out by doing the same exercise on each arm even if the stronger one feels like it could to another couple reps, but it hasn't really changed yet. Is there a better way to work on that? I don't want to be lop-sided

I've been kind of suprised at the rate of growth too, but I seem to put on and maintain muscle with very little effort, so now that I'm consciously trying it sort of makes sense how fast I've been getting bigger. That has been the biggest reason why keep saying I think I may have higher T than normal.
On another note, what do you guys think about these haircuts:


I think mine is too long on the top and want something more stylish. I've been looking at pics of Asian guys for ideas cuz I look Asian and Asian celebs tend to have really great haircuts, guess I could look for Latino guys too (though they're culturally not as metro/androgynous). Also, Takeshi Kaneshiro is scorchingly hot so looking up pics of him is fun, and he's gay so I have a shot, right?

So do you think either of these styles would look good on me or have any suggestions? Maintenance doesn't bother me - it did when I had girl hair but I've been styling it daily since I cut it off and I like it.