Thanks everyone for the welcome wagon.
Yes Emerald, I feel just as you describe, neither man nor woman, somehow outside of gender, undivided, undifferentiated, androgynous or what have you. That is where my natural comfort zone is. It is great many people find comfort in the gender binary, but it sure can be an alien world to some of us. And Cynthia, I'm happy to hear about other androgyne or neutral members of the site, and its diversity. I was afraid I might be relegated to the forum fringes due to my non-binary status in a primarily trans community. ^^; But this seems not to be the case. It looks plenty friendly to me.