I'm not a bit religious, but neither do I harbor any animosity toward any organized religion that does not preach bigotry. Religion does not work for me, but obviously does for many. Kate, you are so lucky to have found one that's a keeper, one that comes close to balancing out the hate-based corrupted faiths seeking chastity - in other people. Congratulations on your acceptance, and congratulations to your church for being accepting.
SusanKG