Happy Mothers Day.

I had several friends ask if my daughter sent me a Mothers Day card. I'm my daughter's father and parent, but I don't think that either of us thinks of me as her mother. (She has begun referring to me to her friends as "the woman who used to be my father." I like that.)
As her father I helped raise her, looked after her, cooked her meals, washed and ironed her clothes (and washed her, when she was little). But her biological mother has a bond with her that I will never have, just as she will never have the kind of bond my daughter and I have. It's all good, and the labels don't always work.
- Kate