Quote from: Jessica.C on May 12, 2010, 01:09:54 PM
That Awesome and congrats!! Who did your SRS??

Jsssica, I had my srs in the UK in 1985, the surgeon at the time made a bit of a mess, nearly end up in court, anyway as part of an agreement at the time I had a redone with a very good result, Iv lived in stealth for most of my post operative life, sometimes its painful just being me, but you do right for yourself.
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Quote from: MsGiselle on May 12, 2010, 04:24:58 PM

Thanks Honey, congrs to you

Thank you, if I was younger Id wear white, Im looking forward to it, a blushing bride, its 3months away and already Im getting pre marriage nerves, its only now I understand its a very big deal for a woman.
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Quote from: pretty pauline on May 13, 2010, 03:15:59 PM
sometimes its painful just being me

Oh how I know what that feels like.  God how I know what that feels like

Quote from: Kristyn on May 13, 2010, 03:59:10 PM
Oh how I know what that feels like.  God how I know what that feels like

Double Diddo That!

Quote from: pretty pauline on May 13, 2010, 03:15:59 PM
Jsssica, I had my srs in the UK in 1985, the surgeon at the time made a bit of a mess, nearly end up in court, anyway as part of an agreement at the time I had a redone with a very good result, Iv lived in stealth for most of my post operative life, sometimes its painful just being me, but you do right for yourself.
pThank you, if I was younger Id wear white, Im looking forward to it, a blushing bride, its 3months away and already Im getting pre marriage nerves, its only now I understand its a very big deal for a woman.
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Thanks Pauline for your reply. I would love to talk to you sometime about ''stealth'' and your experiences doing it.

Quote from: MsGiselle on May 13, 2010, 04:20:53 PM
Thanks Pauline for your reply. I would love to talk to you sometime about ''stealth'' and your experiences doing it.

Stealth rule number 1:  Never post your images on a trans related sight

Quote from: Kristyn on May 13, 2010, 04:51:17 PM
Stealth rule number 1:  Never post your images on a trans related sight

Yeah I know lol . Thankfully I don't have a man right now so no worries there.

Quote from: pretty pauline on May 12, 2010, 10:51:07 AM
I was dating my boyfriend for over a year before I tolded him I was trans and he couldnd tell the difference, he had other girl friends before me, he was surprised and shocked, thought I was joking, but was amazed my vagina came about because of good surgery

What? You mean you had vaginal "lips" and clitoris and all the inner tissues and stuff? You look 100% natural down there??! (PS, I don't know a thing about SRS cos I didnt think it would ever pass, perhaps I should look into this some..)

Quote from: pretty pauline on May 12, 2010, 10:51:07 AMJsssica, I had my srs in the UK in 1985

Well no wonder it was such a success! Good thing I live in the UK

Quote from: pretty pauline on May 13, 2010, 03:15:59 PMif I was younger Id wear white, Im looking forward to it, a blushing bride, its 3months away and already Im getting pre marriage nerves, its only now I understand its a very big deal for a woman.

omg congratulations hon! That sounds so exciting. I already have my wedding dress picked out, now if I only get to use it someday haha

Here's wishing you all the best! 

I can't find a good link right now but I recently read from an authoratitive source that over the year or two after penile inversion the skin metamorphoses and becomes internal tissue - the process is called Polymorphism IIRC
I went in search of this information after it was mentioned to me by a post-op friend

i cant wait...i had srs 2 weeks ago...i have alot of feeling but i can tell i won't be having an orgasm at this point..

Quote from: kaitlynm999 on June 16, 2010, 01:32:09 PM
i cant wait...i had srs 2 weeks ago...i have alot of feeling but i can tell i won't be having an orgasm at this point..

Congrs, Who did your surgery?

Quote from: Steffi on June 04, 2010, 05:57:42 PM
I can't find a good link right now but I recently read from an authoratitive source that over the year or two after penile inversion the skin metamorphoses and becomes internal tissue - the process is called Polymorphism IIRC
I went in search of this information after it was mentioned to me by a post-op friend

This would claim otherwise

http://journals.lww.com/annalsplasticsurgery/Abstract/2007/11000/Do_Histologic_Changes_in_the_Skin_Lined_Neovagina.13.aspx
Do Histologic Changes in the Skin-Lined Neovagina of Male-to-Female Transsexuals Really Occur? by Dekker, Judith; Hage, J Joris; Karim, Refaat; Bloemena, Elisabeth (Annals of Plastic Surgery: November 2007 - Volume 59 - Issue 5 - pp 546-549)

I am 6 weeks post june 15th and i had my FIRST ORGASM.  Oh my god.  I hadnt had one of those eva.  I was just feeling antsy and heavy down there and i started touching myself and within 4 to 5 mins, i had the most explosive feeling i have ever encountered.  I just sat in amazement for 10 minutes coming down off of the hi.  I looked down right after and saw that i was extremely wet and i got a mirror and a spotlight and much to my surprise, I had ejaculated just like the females I have seen in video clips.  I was told by the nurse that ejaculation probably wouldn't occur and she was DEAD WRONG.  I was so amazed that I took pictures and I have proof that it did occur.  (5more times right after that).  Yes, 5 more times.  within 6 hrs and all of them were just like the first.  I dont want to get graphic but you will know your body and it is nothing wrong with exploring it.  I was afraid at first but I was extremely heavy down there and feeling and little warm.  Now, I DIDNT bother the clit directly because that seems to be the last thing to heal and i was afraid but when it DOES heal, all hell will probably break loose.  I am sure it is healed a lot but afraid right now to touch it to see.  It just peaked its little head out about 3 days ago.

wow missy...you should be a romance novel writer!!!!   LOL

my friends are being very cute and lots of my new natal women friends are telling me their pet names for their private parts...that is very cute.

i have no fear exploring my body...i'm too old to be self conscious about it, and i want to know everything!!!

right now it still burns and itches when the blood starts flowing, so I'm actually just trying to relax, and use lots of moisturizer...but i am very hopeful that once my skin calms down, i'll have lots of enjoyment...javascript:void(0);

my surgery was with dr meltzer in AZ and his approach is to try to give me feeling all over the vagina and labia area...and i can tell he was successful
also he does some serious lifts in the area above the vagina...basically so the vagina stays high and doesnt sag....but right now there is a huge sore bump there and i think this part of the surgery is gonna be uncomfortable for a while

so i'll just be patient..

Quote from: missyzanta on June 16, 2010, 07:05:29 PM
I am 6 weeks post june 15th and i had my FIRST ORGASM.  Oh my god.  I hadnt had one of those eva.  I was just feeling antsy and heavy down there and i started touching myself and within 4 to 5 mins, i had the most explosive feeling i have ever encountered.  I just sat in amazement for 10 minutes coming down off of the hi.  I looked down right after and saw that i was extremely wet and i got a mirror and a spotlight and much to my surprise, I had ejaculated just like the females I have seen in video clips.  I was told by the nurse that ejaculation probably wouldn't occur and she was DEAD WRONG.  I was so amazed that I took pictures and I have proof that it did occur.  (5more times right after that).  Yes, 5 more times.  within 6 hrs and all of them were just like the first.  I dont want to get graphic but you will know your body and it is nothing wrong with exploring it.  I was afraid at first but I was extremely heavy down there and feeling and little warm.  Now, I DIDNT bother the clit directly because that seems to be the last thing to heal and i was afraid but when it DOES heal, all hell will probably break loose.  I am sure it is healed a lot but afraid right now to touch it to see.  It just peaked its little head out about 3 days ago.

Oh goodness lol. Congrs, I'm looking forward to it thanks.

Quote from: missyzanta on June 16, 2010, 07:05:29 PM
I am 6 weeks post june 15th and i had my FIRST ORGASM.  Oh my god.  I hadnt had one of those eva.  I was just feeling antsy and heavy down there and i started touching myself and within 4 to 5 mins, i had the most explosive feeling i have ever encountered.  I just sat in amazement for 10 minutes coming down off of the hi.  I looked down right after and saw that i was extremely wet and i got a mirror and a spotlight and much to my surprise, I had ejaculated just like the females I have seen in video clips.  I was told by the nurse that ejaculation probably wouldn't occur and she was DEAD WRONG.  I was so amazed that I took pictures and I have proof that it did occur.  (5more times right after that).  Yes, 5 more times.  within 6 hrs and all of them were just like the first.  I dont want to get graphic but you will know your body and it is nothing wrong with exploring it.  I was afraid at first but I was extremely heavy down there and feeling and little warm.  Now, I DIDNT bother the clit directly because that seems to be the last thing to heal and i was afraid but when it DOES heal, all hell will probably break loose.  I am sure it is healed a lot but afraid right now to touch it to see.  It just peaked its little head out about 3 days ago.

whew is it getting hot in here? 6 weeks huh? Sounds like it was worth the wait!

Quote from: missyzanta on June 16, 2010, 07:05:29 PM
I am 6 weeks post june 15th and i had my FIRST ORGASM.  Oh my god.  I hadnt had one of those eva.  I was just feeling antsy and heavy down there and i started touching myself and within 4 to 5 mins, i had the most explosive feeling i have ever encountered.  I just sat in amazement for 10 minutes coming down off of the hi.  I looked down right after and saw that i was extremely wet and i got a mirror and a spotlight and much to my surprise, I had ejaculated just like the females I have seen in video clips.  I was told by the nurse that ejaculation probably wouldn't occur and she was DEAD WRONG.  I was so amazed that I took pictures and I have proof that it did occur.  (5more times right after that).  Yes, 5 more times.  within 6 hrs and all of them were just like the first.  I dont want to get graphic but you will know your body and it is nothing wrong with exploring it.  I was afraid at first but I was extremely heavy down there and feeling and little warm.  Now, I DIDNT bother the clit directly because that seems to be the last thing to heal and i was afraid but when it DOES heal, all hell will probably break loose.  I am sure it is healed a lot but afraid right now to touch it to see.  It just peaked its little head out about 3 days ago.

I haven't orgasm'ed yet, and I actually had concerns about the numbness that seemed to pervade the region.  That was until I saw an experienced doc last week, that she said I should keep stimulation to the area, that might help with nerve regrowth and getting feeling back.

I happened to be at a women's shop yesterday to pick up some tickets for an event.. and glanced over to the vibrator section.  I had thought about picking one up before, but never had.  So I purchased a 'starter' model.... OMG... there's definitely some nerves firing down there.  Not to get too personal.. but yes, there's life there, and I daresay the sensation is 10x better then any experienced pre-op, even without orgasm connecting in the brain.   I was so relieved.

I haven't orgasm'd, but I know that is going to take awhile for me.   I was never able to orgasm after anti-androgens took affect, a couple years ago, but I know that it will happen, and I patiently await, and have incorporated a 'vibration' routine into my daily dilations, *giggles*.

Yee haw.....
Melan

Melan, how many weeks post are you?  Were u afraid the first time you USED the vibrator and was it a borderline joy/pain feel or what?  I talked to a nurse, (one that I know personally) and she said she thinks that I should start out with a man orally who is going to be soft and gentle with me to get past my fear.


congrats on your COMING TO LIFE!

Quote from: missyzanta on June 21, 2010, 08:46:10 AM
Melan, how many weeks post are you?  Were u afraid the first time you USED the vibrator and was it a borderline joy/pain feel or what?  I talked to a nurse, (one that I know personally) and she said she thinks that I should start out with a man orally who is going to be soft and gentle with me to get past my fear.


congrats on your COMING TO LIFE!

I'm 5 months post..  and I have very little pain if any in the region.  Only discomfort if certain areas are pressed or pushed the wrong way... so I just don't press or push them the wrong way.

I started cautiously with the vibrator, but it became rapidly evident to me that my body, loved it, and the feeling was so intense.   I found the greatest pleasure in labia and clitoral stimulation.. eeeeeek!   And placing the cup thing on the clittoral hood... forget about it... my neighbors now know I have a vibrator now (and are lamenting this fact, I'm sure).  I'm going to shut up now.   

As far as starting with one, I would think you are totally fine to use it, but just exercise caution, and not too much 'vibrate', and not too much or any penetration/touching of sensitive areas.   Treat it with your limits, and common sense of where you are in your healing.   You can control a vibrator.. not sure about the ability to control horny dudes getting into it....

Melan

How long after srs can you become sexually active?