i have a black small tritop binder. its great, except it seems the collar is so high, and i cant wear some shirts because it show the top/front of the binder and even the side around my shoulders. would it ruin it if i trimmed down the front a bit so it wasnt quite so high, same with the arms? (hopefully the front wouldn t tent out even more ) i cant stand wearing a tshirt and having the binder showing a bit, it really just makes me feel horrible =(