I'm right there with you, girl! I went out last week for the first time with panties on and tucked, and yes, wearing cargo shorts (guilty as charged...). My destination was the local thrift store, where I bought a pair of womens' jeans (size 16) and a top (Old Navy). I actually tried the jeans on in the store. And the amazing part... while I was standing there waiting for a fitting room to come free (they were all taken), what was playing on the loudspeakers? "You Make Me Feel Like A Natural Woman..." No kidding! Aretha was singin' me home. Nobody'd believe it in a movie! Now, I'm looking forward to wearing my new clothes next time I go to a support group meeting or something. Not ready to go out in public dressed yet, except for a safe venue like that. But soon, maybe...