A harness was the first thing I bought when I first started questioning my gender.  My partner and I selected a harness that was all leather and barely anything there .... most of the time I don't even feel it --- I can fall asleep with it on.  We also got a vixen dildo ... which has a realistic feel to it as well as a life time guarentee.  The first time we used it for sex I swear I about cried cause sex actually felt like it should.   We have since bought a vibrating cock ring that gives me more sensation --- but my harness has an open back so I get the friction.

Thanks for the information on tranzwear...I want to start packing and didn't like what I had seen...so glad to see it ... going to try them out

Quote from: Meepit on August 27, 2010, 12:01:58 AM
As for harnesses, I don't like the look of most of them as well....The only one I WOULD possibly consider is the SpareParts jock harness (or just a jock like people have mentioned). http://www.comeasyouare.com/default/index.cfm/shop/product/SpareParts-Jock-Harness-Size-A/

I have that harness and I tried it with my packer (Mr Softie) and they didn't get along well, lol. Mine is just too soft and I don't want to damage it trying to fit it into the O ring. I also don't want to wear a harness all day just to hold my packer so I've figured out a few ways until I get some different undies or a simple harness.

I looked up the Tranzwear site and one day I may have to order some, I really like the look of the natural style. Having underwear to hold my packer the way I want goes beyond any harness (in my mind anyways).

I haven't gotten brave enough to wear my packer out yet, I'm terrified of it falling out.  Boy, that'd be hard to explain.

I was thinking of trying one of the diy harnesses but then decided to sacrifice a pair of women's underwear and cut a hole in it for the packer to fit in.  As soon as funds allow, I'm going to try finding some men's underwear that doesn't have the flap in them and do this with them.