I sleep in the altogether, because I often get too warm or tangled if I wear anything.
Even though I'm still pretty small on top, I've learned not to roll over certain ways so I won't pin one of the girls under me uncomfortably. I wear a bra all day; I can't imagine wearing one at night, too.
When I got GRS, my daughter told me that when she was little her mother told her to never wear panties to bed because: "That stuff has to air out." I wore pads when I was early post-op, but once I stopped leaking I've been letting that stuff air out. (And if the sheets get a little stained, that's why they make stain-remover.)
- Kate